"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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for the Pro's... advice needed

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Is it possible to keep a woman with a completly different career path?

Ok me and gf split recently, like yesterday, im fine about it as its been a long time coming. Basically, she wants to go into conservation and travel to different parts of the world, places i dont wanna go to... I wanna get into the publishing industry, so we wouldn't see each other that much anyway (ok you may say whats the point... but if you n a girl had the best click going on?)

So, anyone got experience in this field? and what would you do to sustain attraction in distance?

thanks guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cool; you're completely stressing over ONE girl.
(like every one here)

Basically, if she's a cleaner and you're a dirty tradesman that doesn't matter so long as everything else is in place.
(Yeah how vague)

Ok it's not because she's a lawyer that she'd dump the shoe maker.
It's more because both professions attract a particular type of individual whose traits are likely to repel.

Luckily the world isn't so black and white!

"attraction in distance?"

What the hell.

You guys sell yourself so short.
Ask yourself would your ideal girl live a country away, would she only be in for a week then depart for another continent?

If not this girl isn't worth anything.
You may like her but christ, how many other likeable girls are there that won't be yours for one day of every second month.

"Ok me and gf split recently.. but if you n a girl had the best click going on?"

Wow; I just wasted like 5 minutes on my life on a dam troll.
You idiot, you aren't clicking at all if you broke up; no exceptions.
I don't care how well you think it works, apparently it works so well that she bloody dumped you.

Go watch a romantic comedy, it will appeal to everything you are right now... I mean hollywood can't be wrong.
 
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Lol, fair point, but noticed i said "had" a click, not anymore, its all gone. i'm no troll ty very much. I'm interested in the science of attraction. Your input was valuable but you sound like you couldn't care less about women...
 
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