"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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for the Pro's... advice needed

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Is it possible to keep a woman with a completly different career path?

Ok me and gf split recently, like yesterday, im fine about it as its been a long time coming. Basically, she wants to go into conservation and travel to different parts of the world, places i dont wanna go to... I wanna get into the publishing industry, so we wouldn't see each other that much anyway (ok you may say whats the point... but if you n a girl had the best click going on?)

So, anyone got experience in this field? and what would you do to sustain attraction in distance?

thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cool; you're completely stressing over ONE girl.
(like every one here)

Basically, if she's a cleaner and you're a dirty tradesman that doesn't matter so long as everything else is in place.
(Yeah how vague)

Ok it's not because she's a lawyer that she'd dump the shoe maker.
It's more because both professions attract a particular type of individual whose traits are likely to repel.

Luckily the world isn't so black and white!

"attraction in distance?"

What the hell.

You guys sell yourself so short.
Ask yourself would your ideal girl live a country away, would she only be in for a week then depart for another continent?

If not this girl isn't worth anything.
You may like her but christ, how many other likeable girls are there that won't be yours for one day of every second month.

"Ok me and gf split recently.. but if you n a girl had the best click going on?"

Wow; I just wasted like 5 minutes on my life on a dam troll.
You idiot, you aren't clicking at all if you broke up; no exceptions.
I don't care how well you think it works, apparently it works so well that she bloody dumped you.

Go watch a romantic comedy, it will appeal to everything you are right now... I mean hollywood can't be wrong.
 
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Lol, fair point, but noticed i said "had" a click, not anymore, its all gone. i'm no troll ty very much. I'm interested in the science of attraction. Your input was valuable but you sound like you couldn't care less about women...
 
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