"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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for the Pro's... advice needed

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Is it possible to keep a woman with a completly different career path?

Ok me and gf split recently, like yesterday, im fine about it as its been a long time coming. Basically, she wants to go into conservation and travel to different parts of the world, places i dont wanna go to... I wanna get into the publishing industry, so we wouldn't see each other that much anyway (ok you may say whats the point... but if you n a girl had the best click going on?)

So, anyone got experience in this field? and what would you do to sustain attraction in distance?

thanks guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cool; you're completely stressing over ONE girl.
(like every one here)

Basically, if she's a cleaner and you're a dirty tradesman that doesn't matter so long as everything else is in place.
(Yeah how vague)

Ok it's not because she's a lawyer that she'd dump the shoe maker.
It's more because both professions attract a particular type of individual whose traits are likely to repel.

Luckily the world isn't so black and white!

"attraction in distance?"

What the hell.

You guys sell yourself so short.
Ask yourself would your ideal girl live a country away, would she only be in for a week then depart for another continent?

If not this girl isn't worth anything.
You may like her but christ, how many other likeable girls are there that won't be yours for one day of every second month.

"Ok me and gf split recently.. but if you n a girl had the best click going on?"

Wow; I just wasted like 5 minutes on my life on a dam troll.
You idiot, you aren't clicking at all if you broke up; no exceptions.
I don't care how well you think it works, apparently it works so well that she bloody dumped you.

Go watch a romantic comedy, it will appeal to everything you are right now... I mean hollywood can't be wrong.
 
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Lol, fair point, but noticed i said "had" a click, not anymore, its all gone. i'm no troll ty very much. I'm interested in the science of attraction. Your input was valuable but you sound like you couldn't care less about women...
 
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