"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For the people that live in AZ

Snake-eyes

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Who here lives in the state of Arizona and knows a good photographer for online dating?. If you do, please shoot me a message with your recommendations.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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Find a local HS or Univ with photography major, newspaper, or yearbook students. Minimal pay and they view it as getting experience …
They have the try hard attitude that professionals often lose.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MatureDJ

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Find a local HS or Univ with photography major, newspaper, or yearbook students. Minimal pay and they view it as getting experience …
They have the try hard attitude that professionals often lose.
I once had a contract gig in the PHX area (it was near the two teat-looking mountains). As I usually do when in a new town, I spent some of my little free time walking around the nearby campus (ASU in this case), and I couldn't believe all the tight little coeds walking around in their cropped shirts (it was September and thus the temperature still in the triple digits).
 
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