Snake-eyes
Don Juan
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Who here lives in the state of Arizona and knows a good photographer for online dating?. If you do, please shoot me a message with your recommendations.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
For the people that live in AZ
- Thread starter Snake-eyes
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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I don’t live in Arizona but JCPenney did a good enough job for $80.
Snake-eyes
Don Juan
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You think so, cause i was thinking about target
I'll shoot you a pm
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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I once had a contract gig in the PHX area (it was near the two teat-looking mountains). As I usually do when in a new town, I spent some of my little free time walking around the nearby campus (ASU in this case), and I couldn't believe all the tight little coeds walking around in their cropped shirts (it was September and thus the temperature still in the triple digits).