Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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I've been coming more and more of an alcoholic. its insane.. me and my buddies all crashed at a party last night. when I woke up, i sent my friend Tino to go buy more beer for us because I wanted to drink some more. So he did and brought beer back, and I got drunk again.

the thing is everyone one only took one beer from the case and I was telling them to drink up and take more but they didnt want too

this led me to finish the whole case by myself.

I've been drunk for almost 24 hours now..

still drinking as im typing this, my brother in law bought some brewskies and left them in the fridge as he doesent drink much'

The reason for me typing this is I need help guys... atleast I think I do.. where ever I go, i always, ALWAYS need to be drunk to have fun... no matter where I am... I could be at the playboy mansion and be bored.. its sad.. im 18, almost 19 and im like this

my girlfriend tells me time to time that i need to calm down on drinking but I dont listen to her. my mom and dad even tell me I need to chill out, because I come home drunk many many times and they see me stumbling about..

I dont know what to do... I really dont want to got o AA classes as their **** boring cause I been in there before.. help me out...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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see thats what I dont wanna do... i'd feel fu*k!n embarrassed about it infront of all my friends and family.
 
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It is illegal for you to drink!! How bad will you be when you are legal age?
 

Roly

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Dont try Theraphy yet. Perhaps its more of a mental and emotional attachment type of thing. Have you heard of the NLP concept? Buy the book " Unlimited Power" by Tony Robbins, it can help you out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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