"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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I've been coming more and more of an alcoholic. its insane.. me and my buddies all crashed at a party last night. when I woke up, i sent my friend Tino to go buy more beer for us because I wanted to drink some more. So he did and brought beer back, and I got drunk again.

the thing is everyone one only took one beer from the case and I was telling them to drink up and take more but they didnt want too

this led me to finish the whole case by myself.

I've been drunk for almost 24 hours now..

still drinking as im typing this, my brother in law bought some brewskies and left them in the fridge as he doesent drink much'

The reason for me typing this is I need help guys... atleast I think I do.. where ever I go, i always, ALWAYS need to be drunk to have fun... no matter where I am... I could be at the playboy mansion and be bored.. its sad.. im 18, almost 19 and im like this

my girlfriend tells me time to time that i need to calm down on drinking but I dont listen to her. my mom and dad even tell me I need to chill out, because I come home drunk many many times and they see me stumbling about..

I dont know what to do... I really dont want to got o AA classes as their **** boring cause I been in there before.. help me out...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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see thats what I dont wanna do... i'd feel fu*k!n embarrassed about it infront of all my friends and family.
 
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It is illegal for you to drink!! How bad will you be when you are legal age?
 

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Dont try Theraphy yet. Perhaps its more of a mental and emotional attachment type of thing. Have you heard of the NLP concept? Buy the book " Unlimited Power" by Tony Robbins, it can help you out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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