"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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I've been coming more and more of an alcoholic. its insane.. me and my buddies all crashed at a party last night. when I woke up, i sent my friend Tino to go buy more beer for us because I wanted to drink some more. So he did and brought beer back, and I got drunk again.

the thing is everyone one only took one beer from the case and I was telling them to drink up and take more but they didnt want too

this led me to finish the whole case by myself.

I've been drunk for almost 24 hours now..

still drinking as im typing this, my brother in law bought some brewskies and left them in the fridge as he doesent drink much'

The reason for me typing this is I need help guys... atleast I think I do.. where ever I go, i always, ALWAYS need to be drunk to have fun... no matter where I am... I could be at the playboy mansion and be bored.. its sad.. im 18, almost 19 and im like this

my girlfriend tells me time to time that i need to calm down on drinking but I dont listen to her. my mom and dad even tell me I need to chill out, because I come home drunk many many times and they see me stumbling about..

I dont know what to do... I really dont want to got o AA classes as their **** boring cause I been in there before.. help me out...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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see thats what I dont wanna do... i'd feel fu*k!n embarrassed about it infront of all my friends and family.
 
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It is illegal for you to drink!! How bad will you be when you are legal age?
 

Roly

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Dont try Theraphy yet. Perhaps its more of a mental and emotional attachment type of thing. Have you heard of the NLP concept? Buy the book " Unlimited Power" by Tony Robbins, it can help you out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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