"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For the Mystery Method Doubters - Infield Video of Short Fat PUA Running MM Game

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Good episode of Keys to the VIP, a Canadian pickup show. Short, fat kid faces off against a tall, muscular ****y Latin guy. No contest, right?

http://www.myvideo.de/watch/6016065/Keys_to_the_VIP_Fogle_7_Season3_4_4

The fat kid isolates a blonde hottie in the first challenge, gets solid attraction in the second round, and closes a cutie with big knockers in the third challenge. All within tight time constraints.

And all through tight Mystery Method-style game - openers over the shoulder, false time constraints, negs, cold reads, kino, takeaways, push-pull, compliance tests, winning over the whole group before isolating etc.

Clearly the fat kid's studied Game and is applying textbook Mystery Method game.

Fat guy with tight game > pretty boy with average game.


Other Clips:

http://www.myvideo.de/watch/6015674/Keys_to_the_VIP_Fogle_7_Season3_1_4

http://www.myvideo.de/watch/6015843/Keys_to_the_VIP_Fogle_7_Season3_2_4

http://www.myvideo.de/watch/6016011/Keys_to_the_VIP_Fogle_7_Season3_3_4
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Definitely Mystery Method. Look at all that kino. You can see that it works, but for me personally I would never be comfortable doing this. Because it's all canned, it's all a routine. Almost everything about it screams FAKE to me. You learn nothing about this guy other than the fact that he has studied Mystery Method.

It seems to me that if a good looking girl hangs around in clubs for very long, she's going to get these kind of approaches multiple times over, and learn to recognize them. How many times do you suppose they get shown these silly handshakes? She may not care, but it still seems fake to me.

The principles in Mystery Method are sound, and if they work for you and you like using it, by all means do. I would never feel comfortable with it myself, but you can learn a lot from it regardless.
 

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I asked my friend (female) and she said The "fat guy" was the more attractive of the two lol. Not sure what this was supposed to prove but the "prettyboy" is about a 6 according to her and too feminine acting. Granted, we only saw the intros so I cannot comment on the rest.
 

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zekko said:
Definitely Mystery Method. Look at all that kino. You can see that it works, but for me personally I would never be comfortable doing this. Because it's all canned, it's all a routine. Almost everything about it screams FAKE to me. You learn nothing about this guy other than the fact that he has studied Mystery Method.

It seems to me that if a good looking girl hangs around in clubs for very long, she's going to get these kind of approaches multiple times over, and learn to recognize them. How many times do you suppose they get shown these silly handshakes? She may not care, but it still seems fake to me.

The principles in Mystery Method are sound, and if they work for you and you like using it, by all means do. I would never feel comfortable with it myself, but you can learn a lot from it regardless.
I think the underlying principle is project a vibe congruent with the atmosphere.

Clubs = loud, chaotic, random

Mike basically comes up with a random crazy topic and rolls with it....has fun with the girls in the process and creates an instant rapport w/o boring them. It doesnt guarantee a lay....but its a step in the right direction.

If he lost some weight he would be a machine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spinaroonie

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zekko said:
It seems to me that if a good looking girl hangs around in clubs for very long, she's going to get these kind of approaches multiple times over, and learn to recognize them. How many times do you suppose they get shown these silly handshakes? She may not care, but it still seems fake to me.

It's not that common. Maybe circa 2006-2007 when the Mystery Method peaked, but it's been replaced by "natural game" (whatever that entails).

Yes, because we know of MM it all looks canned and rehearsed. But to the layman and the women he's gaming, he just looks like a fun, smooth guy.
 

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There are many better examples of game on that show than that guy - overall I wasn't overly impressed with him. Having fun and meeting girls sure, but I don't see him building up a whole lot of attraction....
 

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Wake up you virgin motherfcker. Reality tv is not reality. It's staged. Have you ever seen a girl in real life. Have you ever been to a club in real life. No because otherwise you would know that it doesn't go like this.

You are one of those guys that can't be saved. Have a nice lonely life.
 

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the "prettyboy" is about a 6 according to her and too feminine acting
Interesting, I thought Mike sounded feminine.
But it just goes to show that it can be hard for a guy sometimes to tell how another male is coming across to women. "Oh, you think HE'S the good looking one? Really?". We can write a guy off as no competition while a woman might find him attractive.

Mike basically comes up with a random crazy topic and rolls with it
Well, that's the thing, nothing about that whole interaction seemed random at all to me, it's just a performance.

Yes, because we know of MM it all looks canned and rehearsed. But to the layman and the women he's gaming, he just looks like a fun, smooth guy.
Yeah, like I said, you can see that it works. It's just the fact that I know it's all canned that bugs me.
It really reminds me of a magic trick, MM always had. Once you know how a trick works you can't really ever look at it the same way again. And I don't think it's a coincidence that Mystery was a magician.
 

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J. Darko said:
Wake up you virgin motherfcker. Reality tv is not reality. It's staged. Have you ever seen a girl in real life. Have you ever been to a club in real life. No because otherwise you would know that it doesn't go like this.

You are one of those guys that can't be saved. Have a nice lonely life.
Easy there, sport. KTVIP is legit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mystery method works no question but the show is probably fake. The point is that you should test out all these methods and once you do you will naturally come up with a style that suits you.

I'm just not going to be learning magic tricks to try to pull some b|tch, but I do use negs, false time constraints, kino and a whole bunch of other tactics with every woman I meet.

I don't follow mystery method or any other method step by step but I use the tactics in the many methods I learned to create attraction and try to set myself apart from being just another nice guy.
 

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I look for eye contact, open with hello, and then just flow. I rely on flow and not some nerdy a1 plus 3b crap. I flirt and get the number then give them the bone. It's that simple. This is the reason so many ppl dnt get laid on here they overcomplicated the simple sh!t getting women is easy u don't need to waste$ on some silly ass system. Just look for females attracted to you.
 

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What the hell is this with ppl trying to bend what they see to suit their notions, how was that guy short? and fat? sure he wasnt muscular but was chubby at best. The major problem with his looks was that he had a nice guy aura all over him.

Since when short and fat stopped meaning Danny de Vito and started to mean regular guys?
 

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joe henny said:
I look for eye contact, open with hello, and then just flow. I rely on flow and not some nerdy a1 plus 3b crap. I flirt and get the number then give them the bone. It's that simple. This is the reason so many ppl dnt get laid on here they overcomplicated the simple sh!t getting women is easy u don't need to waste$ on some silly ass system. Just look for females attracted to you.
Good job, buddy. You're a natural. Most guys here aren't.
 

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I wouldn't be caught dead trying this PUA crap
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Honestly, dude seems gay as fvck. I dont know how women see it but thats how it looks to me. he's not fat, hes just not ripped or toned. I'm fatter than this guy.
 

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Wow...fvcking pathetic. This thread makes me want to kill myself as well.
 

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Where's the rapport? No wonder people get so many flakes.
Getting the number is not closing.
 

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jtlancer said:
Where's the rapport? No wonder people get so many flakes.
Getting the number is not closing.
The players only have 5 minutes to get the number. That's the challenging aspect of the show.
 

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joe henny said:
I look for eye contact, open with hello, and then just flow. I rely on flow and not some nerdy a1 plus 3b crap. I flirt and get the number then give them the bone. It's that simple. This is the reason so many ppl dnt get laid on here they overcomplicated the simple sh!t getting women is easy u don't need to waste$ on some silly ass system. Just look for females attracted to you.
Wrong. whatyou are doing infact is using MM or a variant of it. Just you arent aware of it. Same way as many guitar players who claim to not know theory, yet subconsciously still use it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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