For the men: honestly, if you could never be caught, would you cheat on your gf?

[The_Reaper]

Say you're out of town, or away in some other state, whatever, and it's offered on a plate. Some girl will suck you off or you could go back to her place to have sex and never see her again afterwards. Would you do it? Would you fight the temptation - or is your relationship so strong there would there be no temptation at all (liar)...

If so, how would you feel about it - guilt, remorse, indifference?

I'm wondering also if you will post honest replies...

 

[persiangino]

Considering most girls in our society today cheat on their 'boyfriends' a real man would be stupid to have a 'girlfriend' to begin with. So the answer is yes, pimp as many hoes as possible.

 

[Fred Da Head]

Contrary to Mr. Cynical there, I think it would be hypocritical to criticize women for something, and then do the very same thing. But maybe he's channeling Tyler Durden (the PUA, not the character).

I think it's wrong to tell a woman you'll be seeing her exclusively and then go and screw around. That being said, the second she's unfaithful, she gets the boot. The solution might be to be open and have her be aware that you'll be seeing other women; MLTRs probably fit the bill.

If I was in an exclusive LTR and I cheated on the lady, I'd probably feel guilt, but not remorse. Guilt because, as I said, it's wrong to tell someone you'll be in an exclusive relationship and then go and cheat on them; no remorse because if I do it, it's something that I want to do.

Heh, guess I'm still "stuck" with the mindset that pervaded this site before the new guys all got here...

 

[Jay Jay]

No.

Why?

Integrity.

JJ

 

[Fash]

No.

Why?

Integrity.

JJ

Whatever dude...

Cheating on gfs... hell yeh!

Cheating on wife... NO WAY!

Don't get married if you plan to play away. But while you are just bf/gf... nail as many b*tches as you can and get it out of your system.. literally! :woo:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I wouldn't. Why would I cheat on a woman that I felt was worth dating? Also, why would I bother dating someone I would want to cheat on?

 

[TheNewGuy]

If the girl and I agreed to be exclusive, no. A man has integrity, like stated before.

If I don't think I could be exclusive, I wouldn't date the girl.

 

[djbr]

When I commit to something I do everything that I can to make sure I honor my part of the commitment.

That, or I just refuse to commit.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Shows how much integrity you have.


So I take it, the only reason you are with your GF is because you're afraid to cheat on her.

This tells you alot about your character dude. I'm looking at you OP.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Cheating is for boys...high school s.hit. If you wanna sleep around, don't get in a bf/gf relationship.

 

[insidious]

Well I've re-written some of the rules in my life.

Right now...no GF, so maybe the point is moot for me now, at this point in my life.

However if I make the leap to actually considering a woman my GF and we have the explicit understanding we are in exclusive relationship, then hell no, I wouldn't. I take my promises seriously. I can only control my own actions, my own world. If she chooses to be with another guy (s), then I'm at fault for picking a woman of bad character. I don't have the cynical belief that all women are of bad character either.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Only fvck other babes behind your girlfreinds back if you allow her to fvck other dudes. :yes:

 

[Kev07]

you can always put a don't ask don't tell policy.

but you s hould not want to cheat on your girl, or else you're not interested in her enough to have a moral debate about whether or not it's ok to cheat on her

 

[Bonhomme]

That would depend upon the sort of relationship we have. If she was faithful, and our relationship was understood to be exclusive, no.

 

[Docs]

A lot of girls are worth dating.

That said, I'd have to really like the girl to not cheat. If she's just...there, I'm a prick, but I'd have to say I'd go for it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's impossible to say that under no circumstances would a person ever cheat...

Why is that? Is it impossible for people to stand by their convictions? Are you saying that man is weak in nature an is completely driven by reaction and have no means of control over themselves? Are you saying that you have no control over things like taking a life (even your own)? How about having a alternative sexual experience? Are you saying that you have no control over yourself and could have a homosexual experience tomorrow because you have no control of yourself what so ever?

 

[Mental]

Say you're out of town, or away in some other state, whatever, and it's offered on a plate. Some girl will suck you off or you could go back to her place to have sex and never see her again afterwards. Would you do it? Would you fight the temptation - or is your relationship so strong there would there be no temptation at all (liar)...

If so, how would you feel about it - guilt, remorse, indifference?

I'm wondering also if you will post honest replies...

Honestly, if I had a girlfriend, and another woman offered sex because I'm "that hot" I doubt I would take her up on it. I'd be feeling pretty hot though.

I've been faithful with what little relationship I once had. So I could look myself in the mirror, for one. For two, it's just the right thing to do. If I want to be seen as a man of integrity (and I am one), then I've got to live that in my life.

 

[Drum&Bass]

Cheating is like stealing from a close/good friend....Imagine you let one of your close buddies you've known for years hang out at your place, you leave the room for a second to do something and while your gone your buddy steals money/sentimental object/valuable object from you.

When you get back you don't notice anything wrong until later on down the line when you realize something close to you was taken away, with your back turned..

later you go over to your buddies house, and find the object that was lost sitting in their possession...

Think of the HURT, SHOCK, ANGER, CONFUSION, DIS-BELIEF, BETRAYAL OF TRUST, LACK OF RESPECT you will feel, from the one person who you thought you could count on.

there may be no chance of getting caught but then you would really have to look in the mirror and wonder what kind of a man you are to stoop so low..

Keep yourself to the highest of standards

 

[nonchalant]

cheating's for people with low self esteem

 

[Quiksilver]

Make it known if the relationship is exclusive or not first...If it is, no. If it isn't, go crazy.

That being said, if it was one of 'those' moments then yeah. But I'd dump my gf the next day.

I wouldn't feel bad, I just know it's wrong to cheat. If you make it known that you're not exclusive however, then it isn't cheating or wrong.