"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For the guys with girlfriends

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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comic_relief

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How my day went with my girlfriend:
1.) Banged
2.) Yard selling with a friend
3.) Made smoothies
4.) swimming at the pool
5.) Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2 online
6.) go to bed

Nothing too crazy when I am with my girlfriend. Sometimes we will watch "Always Sunny in Philadelphia"

- comic_relief
 

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Your question is too vague. The weekends? weekdays? are you in school? Do you work? How far away are you from eachother?
 

CarlitosWay

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Going out for a bite to eat or few drinks , preferably outside. (we always split bill or I buy one night and she gets the next). Mornings/afternoon we usually have sex for a good hour to hour and a half or until right before she has to go to work hehe.

Lately have been going out to the park, grill some food together by the lake. Then get a bit frisky by the shore, with only the moon light and stars showcasing her size d bosom and get ran up on by the police with spot lights(true story)

Head down town here a lot also, hit up some clubs and dance pretty much the whole night until close. Drinks, sex, bj what not.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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