"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Atom Smasher

Atom Smasher

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How I consistently attract women who are above my "league":

"Assume a virtue if you have it not."

I work out, I pay attention to wardrobe and style (this is my suit of armor and how I visually project power), and I continually brainwash myself that I'm the sh!t and any woman would be fortunate to be with me.

When you convey power and social ease, the challenge of looks is eliminated. What are you wearing today? What are you telling yourself today? How much will you work out today?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you are not attractive but want a hot chick. I will give you a little secret. Hot girls who are very shy end up with men much less attractive than they are as a norm. They require a lot more time that it is worth to get laid in the realm of the better looking guys and they prefer an ugly alpha to a decent looking beta.
 
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^ This!

Put in as much effort as you can to be as attractive as you can. Clothes, hair, etc. Once you're at your peak, assume you're even better than you now are. Success follows.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VladPatton

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I just bang 9 HB1's and even the playing field, boyee!
 
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