"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Atom Smasher

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How I consistently attract women who are above my "league":

"Assume a virtue if you have it not."

I work out, I pay attention to wardrobe and style (this is my suit of armor and how I visually project power), and I continually brainwash myself that I'm the sh!t and any woman would be fortunate to be with me.

When you convey power and social ease, the challenge of looks is eliminated. What are you wearing today? What are you telling yourself today? How much will you work out today?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you are not attractive but want a hot chick. I will give you a little secret. Hot girls who are very shy end up with men much less attractive than they are as a norm. They require a lot more time that it is worth to get laid in the realm of the better looking guys and they prefer an ugly alpha to a decent looking beta.
 
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^ This!

Put in as much effort as you can to be as attractive as you can. Clothes, hair, etc. Once you're at your peak, assume you're even better than you now are. Success follows.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I just bang 9 HB1's and even the playing field, boyee!
 
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