"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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for the first time in my life i have to choose between woman

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ok so I've been spinning plates. like I've really steeped my game up. I literally get laid everytime i go out now. it's like woman intuitively know I can get pvssy. Ok but here's my problem. One chick I've been hanging out with. great girl pays for ME dont ask she just insists everytime. shows a great amount of interest has good job is a family girl very cute etc. other plate I've been talking to is more attractive. me and her are more alike but she shows less interest. job isnt as good. now I cant get away with this for long. as one already caught whiff of it but I told her no I hung out with her in a group setting. how do I go about this? I like both
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I will tell you what I would do but I am not sure that you could pull it off: I would give the one that has less interest less attention. If her interest doesnt spike, I would keep talking to the one that obviously is more attentive, has better values and is investing more by paying for things. I would not give that one more attention, keep things as they are with her since it seems to be working.

You will either raise the other girls interest or she will drift off when you give her less attention. Actually, I would just go several days without initiating any communication and see if she reaches out. If she doesnt, oh well. Use that time to find another plate to spin.

You speak highly of one and the other one only has "looks". I am sure you can figure out which one has more of what you're looking for.
 

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
 

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Girl number 1 sounds like less drama and headaches. Is girl number 2 putting out? If she isn´t, sounds like it´s not worth the effort. Which of the girls caught a whiff?
 

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
No it looks good. As long as your dating and not committed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
Don't worry abt being caught. If you were, it's easily explained away that women strangely enough accepts.

From past experiences, when caught; I'll just inform her that I'm a type of guy who chooses the best, and the only way for me to find the best I need to date lots of beautiful women. I'll smile and say may the best women win.

She either accepts it or not.

Surprisingly, most do and that's when things get interesting to the extent that you'd wish to get away. You'll understand this after you've tried it.
 
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