"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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for the first time in my life i have to choose between woman

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ok so I've been spinning plates. like I've really steeped my game up. I literally get laid everytime i go out now. it's like woman intuitively know I can get pvssy. Ok but here's my problem. One chick I've been hanging out with. great girl pays for ME dont ask she just insists everytime. shows a great amount of interest has good job is a family girl very cute etc. other plate I've been talking to is more attractive. me and her are more alike but she shows less interest. job isnt as good. now I cant get away with this for long. as one already caught whiff of it but I told her no I hung out with her in a group setting. how do I go about this? I like both
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I will tell you what I would do but I am not sure that you could pull it off: I would give the one that has less interest less attention. If her interest doesnt spike, I would keep talking to the one that obviously is more attentive, has better values and is investing more by paying for things. I would not give that one more attention, keep things as they are with her since it seems to be working.

You will either raise the other girls interest or she will drift off when you give her less attention. Actually, I would just go several days without initiating any communication and see if she reaches out. If she doesnt, oh well. Use that time to find another plate to spin.

You speak highly of one and the other one only has "looks". I am sure you can figure out which one has more of what you're looking for.
 

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
 

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Girl number 1 sounds like less drama and headaches. Is girl number 2 putting out? If she isn´t, sounds like it´s not worth the effort. Which of the girls caught a whiff?
 

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
No it looks good. As long as your dating and not committed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
Don't worry abt being caught. If you were, it's easily explained away that women strangely enough accepts.

From past experiences, when caught; I'll just inform her that I'm a type of guy who chooses the best, and the only way for me to find the best I need to date lots of beautiful women. I'll smile and say may the best women win.

She either accepts it or not.

Surprisingly, most do and that's when things get interesting to the extent that you'd wish to get away. You'll understand this after you've tried it.
 
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