"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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for the first time in my life i have to choose between woman

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ok so I've been spinning plates. like I've really steeped my game up. I literally get laid everytime i go out now. it's like woman intuitively know I can get pvssy. Ok but here's my problem. One chick I've been hanging out with. great girl pays for ME dont ask she just insists everytime. shows a great amount of interest has good job is a family girl very cute etc. other plate I've been talking to is more attractive. me and her are more alike but she shows less interest. job isnt as good. now I cant get away with this for long. as one already caught whiff of it but I told her no I hung out with her in a group setting. how do I go about this? I like both
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I will tell you what I would do but I am not sure that you could pull it off: I would give the one that has less interest less attention. If her interest doesnt spike, I would keep talking to the one that obviously is more attentive, has better values and is investing more by paying for things. I would not give that one more attention, keep things as they are with her since it seems to be working.

You will either raise the other girls interest or she will drift off when you give her less attention. Actually, I would just go several days without initiating any communication and see if she reaches out. If she doesnt, oh well. Use that time to find another plate to spin.

You speak highly of one and the other one only has "looks". I am sure you can figure out which one has more of what you're looking for.
 

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
 

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Girl number 1 sounds like less drama and headaches. Is girl number 2 putting out? If she isn´t, sounds like it´s not worth the effort. Which of the girls caught a whiff?
 

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
No it looks good. As long as your dating and not committed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm taking taking one with less attention on a date tonight. I just don't wanna get caught hanging out with 2 different chicks if either one catches wind wont it look bad?
Don't worry abt being caught. If you were, it's easily explained away that women strangely enough accepts.

From past experiences, when caught; I'll just inform her that I'm a type of guy who chooses the best, and the only way for me to find the best I need to date lots of beautiful women. I'll smile and say may the best women win.

She either accepts it or not.

Surprisingly, most do and that's when things get interesting to the extent that you'd wish to get away. You'll understand this after you've tried it.
 
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