"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For the engineers: use your money!

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wayword said:
Engineering is like mental weight-lifting. It's way too hardcore for women. Chicks prefer mental aerobics - which include anything in liberal farts or humanities. Basically anything subjective with no wrong answers.

When you ask most career chicks these days what they do - it's usually some type of "consulting" or marketing, blah blah.
Too true, and if you're out somewhere and mention to a chick that you're an engineer or scientist or something hardcore like that, half the time, they'll try to front like they too are intellectual. Usually they're art,philosophy, history, or English Lit majors. They prefer dissecting and analyzing language (prose and poetry) than analyzing data. Also, these are the type of chicks who think they understand psychology just because it's a woman's weapon of choice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Unemployed is the man that thinks there are no wrong answers in marketing.
 

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I am saddend by some innaccuracies posted on this thread. I can't nearly hit them all, so i'll get to a few.

I'll start off by responding to the origional post. I don't spend my money on Hoes because im an engineer. I am like the rest of you, and abide by principals laid out by the DJ bible, like making her pay etc.

Usually they're art,philosophy, history, or English Lit majors. They prefer dissecting and analyzing language (prose and poetry) than analyzing data.

I can hold an intelligent conversation on an array of topics as well if not better than 90% of the people who bash engineers. Ive read everything from philosophy, to marketing, music, history, sports, you name it. To call me a one dimensional square that does nothing put spit out equations is insulting. Likewise, a lot of my friends are also learned in many areas of literature.

mrRuckus knows what I'm talking about. Mind Body Soul, I already mentioned that I'm talking about engineers who haven't developed social skills, by your own admission you do well with women, this doesn't apply to you.

In a male dominated major, of course you will see guys who are inept at picking up women. At the same time, there are the normal guys who get plenty of girls. Yes, I get girls as well , so that removes me from the prototypical engineering stereotype


And the females... i've seen about 2 hot female engineers out of the 100 or so i've met.

okay, this is 100% accurate. I work in a company with about 2000 to 3000, but a good portion of all engineering departments are guys. there is only one hot women who works in an engineering department that I have come in contact with. As with my previous paragraphs, I hate blanket statements......

..but this one is so true.
 

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synergy1 said:
I can hold an intelligent conversation on an array of topics as well if not better than 90% of the people who bash engineers. Ive read everything from philosophy, to marketing, music, history, sports, you name it. To call me a one dimensional square that does nothing put spit out equations is insulting. Likewise, a lot of my friends are also learned in many areas of literature.
All this may be well and good but the question is, are you reading all this different stuff because it actually interests you or because it is what you think is expected of a so-called educated gentleman?

Okay, your friends are learned in literature. Are they also engineers. In not, how many people do you think would consider them one dimensional because they like liberal arts stuff but couldn't care **** about math and engineering? Not a whole lot. Can you say: Double Standard?
 

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Obsidian said:
The main thesis of this thread is that you can get girls by spending money. That's what we should discuss. Do you guys really think it's true?
No, but you can get girls by having money pretty easy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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vorbis said:
So how do you keep a girl around if you're competing with better sociallly, sexually experienced guys for girls. Spend money on her. I'm not talking lavish amounts but generally pick up the tab for say lunch. The biggest obstacle for the late bloomer is getting that first serious relationship (> 2 months) Use your money to help keep her around. Getting some experience is critical, how you get it is irrelevant.
Wow...just...wow
 
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