"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For the engineers: use your money!

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wayword said:
Engineering is like mental weight-lifting. It's way too hardcore for women. Chicks prefer mental aerobics - which include anything in liberal farts or humanities. Basically anything subjective with no wrong answers.

When you ask most career chicks these days what they do - it's usually some type of "consulting" or marketing, blah blah.
Too true, and if you're out somewhere and mention to a chick that you're an engineer or scientist or something hardcore like that, half the time, they'll try to front like they too are intellectual. Usually they're art,philosophy, history, or English Lit majors. They prefer dissecting and analyzing language (prose and poetry) than analyzing data. Also, these are the type of chicks who think they understand psychology just because it's a woman's weapon of choice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unemployed is the man that thinks there are no wrong answers in marketing.
 

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I am saddend by some innaccuracies posted on this thread. I can't nearly hit them all, so i'll get to a few.

I'll start off by responding to the origional post. I don't spend my money on Hoes because im an engineer. I am like the rest of you, and abide by principals laid out by the DJ bible, like making her pay etc.

Usually they're art,philosophy, history, or English Lit majors. They prefer dissecting and analyzing language (prose and poetry) than analyzing data.

I can hold an intelligent conversation on an array of topics as well if not better than 90% of the people who bash engineers. Ive read everything from philosophy, to marketing, music, history, sports, you name it. To call me a one dimensional square that does nothing put spit out equations is insulting. Likewise, a lot of my friends are also learned in many areas of literature.

mrRuckus knows what I'm talking about. Mind Body Soul, I already mentioned that I'm talking about engineers who haven't developed social skills, by your own admission you do well with women, this doesn't apply to you.

In a male dominated major, of course you will see guys who are inept at picking up women. At the same time, there are the normal guys who get plenty of girls. Yes, I get girls as well , so that removes me from the prototypical engineering stereotype


And the females... i've seen about 2 hot female engineers out of the 100 or so i've met.

okay, this is 100% accurate. I work in a company with about 2000 to 3000, but a good portion of all engineering departments are guys. there is only one hot women who works in an engineering department that I have come in contact with. As with my previous paragraphs, I hate blanket statements......

..but this one is so true.
 

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synergy1 said:
I can hold an intelligent conversation on an array of topics as well if not better than 90% of the people who bash engineers. Ive read everything from philosophy, to marketing, music, history, sports, you name it. To call me a one dimensional square that does nothing put spit out equations is insulting. Likewise, a lot of my friends are also learned in many areas of literature.
All this may be well and good but the question is, are you reading all this different stuff because it actually interests you or because it is what you think is expected of a so-called educated gentleman?

Okay, your friends are learned in literature. Are they also engineers. In not, how many people do you think would consider them one dimensional because they like liberal arts stuff but couldn't care **** about math and engineering? Not a whole lot. Can you say: Double Standard?
 

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Obsidian said:
The main thesis of this thread is that you can get girls by spending money. That's what we should discuss. Do you guys really think it's true?
No, but you can get girls by having money pretty easy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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vorbis said:
So how do you keep a girl around if you're competing with better sociallly, sexually experienced guys for girls. Spend money on her. I'm not talking lavish amounts but generally pick up the tab for say lunch. The biggest obstacle for the late bloomer is getting that first serious relationship (> 2 months) Use your money to help keep her around. Getting some experience is critical, how you get it is irrelevant.
Wow...just...wow
 
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