"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I got a problem and need someone who knows what's going on.. because I'm lost here..

So today I've had this incident happen numerous times where the whole screen disappears while I'm using the computer with a blue screen and white text saying:

STOP: [Fatal system error]
The windows subsystem process terminated unexpectedly with a status of [some weird codes made from numbers and letters].
The system has been shut down.


so basically the computer just shuts down while that message appears. When I restart I then get a similar message just as the pc gets loaded..

Beginning dump physical memory.
Physical memory dump complete.


..then the system shuts down again.. :S

So I restart the computer again in safe mode and run msconfig accessing the startup system...I see this.. -dumprep 0 -k
I un-check mark it and restart the computer again with no problems. Then after a while the same error message appears again and I have to go through the same process restarting the computer in safe mode etc.

I'm guessing this is some kind of virus. I've got the best anti-virus programs installed (kaspersky, spyware doctor, lavasoft ad-aware, etc) but failed to find anything suspicious.

does anyone know what the hell is going on here? :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This can happen after adding a new piece of hardware such as memory etc. If you added anything new, remove that device and the drivers.

There is a worm that simulated the message you got some time ago. Virus scanners are worthless and won't detect that. You need to make sure all windows updates are patched.
 

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I'd love to know what virus is out in the wild that major security products don't detect. Please provide info.
 

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bigjohnson said:
I'd love to know what virus is out in the wild that major security products don't detect. Please provide info.
New viruses can be created daily. Security products aren't always up to date
 

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tmpgstx said:
This can happen after adding a new piece of hardware such as memory etc. If you added anything new, remove that device and the drivers.

There is a worm that simulated the message you got some time ago. Virus scanners are worthless and won't detect that. You need to make sure all windows updates are patched.
Well that's what makes it funny, I haven't added any new drivers or devices (except a web cam which was a few days ago).

If I don't find the way to fix this I'm thinking of a system restore...I made a backup 'bout a month ago. Would that fix the problem? I've never done a system restore before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just system restore. You wont really lose much info. System restore restores the computer to the last time you reboot your pc, not the last time you restored it as long as you choose the latest system point of restore.
 

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mpimpin said:
New viruses can be created daily. Security products aren't always up to date
Being up to date isn't the question. I'm asking about a specific virus that was posted above that "virus scanners won't detect". What is it? Smells like BS to me.

Also, most signatures are updated by major vendors within 2-4 hours of first reports.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Being up to date isn't the question. I'm asking about a specific virus that was posted above that "virus scanners won't detect". What is it? Smells like BS to me.

Also, most signatures are updated by major vendors within 2-4 hours of first reports.

virus scanners wont detect an up to date virus because the virus defintions in the program are not up to date. Actually its simple.
 

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Skel said:
virus scanners wont detect an up to date virus because the virus defintions in the program are not up to date. Actually its simple.
OK, I'll type slower. He said there was a specific virus presently out (not some hypothetical virus from next week) that the virus scanner couldn't detect. I'm asking for a show me. I believe the worm he's talking about was one that poorly done securtiy ware wouldn't detect because it included some primitive rootkit functionality, but all majors had updates to detect it within hours. Free AV is, well, you get what you pay for sometimes.



Now what you're talking about is something completely different, but ...

As for malware from next week, it'll be in your AV database before you know the malware is out there. Someone will detect it and submit a sample and the worldwide AV community will share it among themselves, and have new definitions out within hours.

Yeah, I know what I'm talking about, the AV research group for North America sits North of me, across the street from where I sit in software R&D.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I could have phrased that more nicely - I'm sorry for being testy dude.
 

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The easiest way to fix this is to format your hard drive and install Ubuntu Linux :D

But if you insist on sticking with Windows, I would still wipe the hard drive and re-install. Doing a recovery doesn't really fix anything.
 

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It sounds like a hardware or driver issue. As much as I love Linux bad drivers and (for sure) bad hardware will put it down just as surely, and with even more cryptic error messages.
 

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Well that's what makes it funny, I haven't added any new drivers or devices (except a web cam which was a few days ago).
I actually had a web cam do this very thing. Removing the cam and drivers fixed it.
 

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I had memory do this, all I had to do is re-seat it and the issue was solved. If you're comfortable inside the case (and if you're not you should be, as a guy. LOL) try reseating components and restarting.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Desdinova said:
The easiest way to fix this is to format your hard drive and install Ubuntu Linux :D

But if you insist on sticking with Windows, I would still wipe the hard drive and re-install. Doing a recovery doesn't really fix anything.
Ahh I hate formating...too much info gets lost. Only time I did that was when I was a noob at computers and some idiot sent me a trojan :rolleyes:
 

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bigjohnson said:
I had memory do this, all I had to do is re-seat it and the issue was solved. If you're comfortable inside the case (and if you're not you should be, as a guy. LOL) try reseating components and restarting.
Bingo! Problem solved. :)

Thanks for the help guys.
 
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