"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For the college guys who want to meet women

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StoneColdFox

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I LOVE COLLEGE.

Approaching is stupid easy because everyone is looking to meet new people, 95 percent of the time a hi whats your name works..

lol

Last night I was at a frat party, a little intoxicated, didnt want to be because it messes up my game but..it happens lol.

Turns out I did well because this morning 5 or 6 cute girls approached me saying they remember me from the party.

Alot of girls dont get my sense of humor, the younger ones atleast, but at times i have them eating out the palm of my hand..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJMaC23

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So I'm going to be transferring to a new University this fall as a junior....there are dorms and such on campus however I will be a commuter student; anyone have any advice for a student like me who doesn't live on campus in regards to meeting people (guys and girls)?
 
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Well I havent been in your situation but I guess buds with someone that dorms and kick it there, meet other people etc etc.

or

Get a social group of hot girls and kick it with them.

and a lot of people would probably recommend joining a frat, though I have NO experience with this.
 
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I got 7 numbers allready a fvcked 2 girls in 3 days...

damn these freshmans Want it...

it all started with, "Hi, Im meeting new people today... whats your name"

Gets em everytime :)
 
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Slick. Either you are a liar or you are actually telling the truth. Two very obvious conclusions that one can come to.

Please expand and fill our minds with more of your macking details.

That is the best approach by far.

Simple, honest, and none of that ****y/Not-funny routine. Grade A in my opinion.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How is College going for everyone so far? I just finished my first week and managed to meet a few girls but didn't talk to them long enough to build the rapport for a #close. And my campus is so big that you hardly see the same person more than once, except for classes of course. As far as classes go I have been getting alot of smiles but have just been smiling back or saying hi. I plan to step it up this week.
 
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Oh my god....

College

This is a brag post... but I hooked up with a girl on the second night of orientation. On day 13 I lost my virginity. I can't say I'm too proud of that though. It's stupidly easy. I just enjoy being myself and being nice to everyone and being friendly. The bulk I put on over the past 8 months or so helped a lot too. Especially at the beginning everyone is really accepting and it's

TOO
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NUMBERS
 
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Oh... one more point. Don't just go after girls and make friends with them. Make a lot of guy friends as well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok today was my first try putting these techniques into play. I went to the Learning commons and sat 3 tables away from an hb7. After the first few minutes we made eye contact and she looked down. Then made eye contact again and i smiled and she looked down again. Made eye contact again, same thing. Now I know tweeder said this is a go signal and you need to approach. Well i couldn't do it. I felt like she could have felt like i was creeping her out by having kept looking at her. If they don't smile back (at the library), do you still approach? Also, what do i say? I really don't know what to say to her and nor do i know how to tell if she wants me to approach.
 
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All excuses. You need no signals, nothing, to approach. You either approach and get her number or you don't, anything you say regarding it is irrelevant BS. What ifs, buts and maybes dont exist this is just a product of your thoughts.

What to say? Walk up to her confidently with a smile and say, "Hey, you caught my eye and I wanted to come and meet you. I'm *AJ* " and offer your handshake before she has a chance to think about what happened. Then chat for a bit, get her warmed to you and close. That's it, run the same thing over and over with around 20 girls or so and then when you have enough numbers, cool it down so you don't get a bad rep.

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How the heck do you go from, "Hi, how was your weekend/what did you do" to "careful with your teeth"?

I small talk with a few girls at the beginning of class 3 times a week and I don't know how to go any farther.

The only thing I can think of and maybe pull off is suggesting that we go to the math lab (class requirement certain # of hours) together and do our homework. And maybe suggest lunch after that. But even then I'd probably be too nervous to even bring it up...
 
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If I could kick my two cents in here...join clubs/sports.
Student organizations are gold, because if you meet an HB there, you already have a shared interest (ie; what ever the club is), and it allows you to create value by excelling at stuff.

Sports aren't so great to meet girls, but in terms of feeling more manly, it's great. I'm an unathletic guy, and I decided to change that by joining the Ultimate team. Not only am I getting in shape, but I now have a group of guy friends, including "cool" upperclassmen, to provide me with social proof/party invites/good old male bonding.

Plus, this all looks good on your resume, and it's fun, and it can take your mind off of all the AFC obsessions you need to fight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Black Casanova said:
once you meet a girl, what is a good way to move the relationship along

coffee, etc

ideas?
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As your walking out of class together just tell her you are going for some coffee at the moment and ask her if she wants to tag along if she does not have class. After the coffee you can ask her for her number. If you are trying to have coffee some other time outside of school hours then you need to get her number first.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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