"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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naes420

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i am 17 ONLY, and want to pursue a career in medicine and become a doctor of internal medicine, i dont have any "positive" adult infulences in my life right now. be honest, as adults, how many of you have pursued dreams and failed...i just want to know, it sure as hell wont stop me from pursueing mine, but i always liek to know the statistics.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ridingthelightning

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I don't know anyone that truly pursued their dreams and didn't make it.
Go after it with complete and relentless pursuit and you'll make it. Especially in the medical field. The more effort you put into school the more it pays off. I'm technically premed and my brother is now a doctor, we both pursue whatever we want and more often than not we've gotten it.
 

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Ridingthelightning said:
I don't know anyone that truly pursued their dreams and didn't make it.
Go after it with complete and relentless pursuit and you'll make it. Especially in the medical field. The more effort you put into school the more it pays off. I'm technically premed and my brother is now a doctor, we both pursue whatever we want and more often than not we've gotten it.
what about all the jocks who dreamed of making it to the pros? all the rockers who dreamed of playing in front of 50,000 screaming fans? many of those pursured their dreams with intense passion. most ended up with a life of broken dreams.

school is so that the elites can have mid-level management.
 

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I'm loving my life and living my dream job. I work in IT and wouldn't change for anything except to maybe teach IT. Personally I love computers.

At your age the two smartest things you can do is:
1. Get excellent grades. Med School is tough to get in to. Get good grades
2. Make sure you surround yourself with as many positive people as possible

If you're around a lot of partying junkie type friends. Loose them. You need to be around other positive college/university bound friends. They'll help keep you focused.

Find ways to get an early foothold in your career. Talk to Doctors, volunteer, talk to people, network, anything. People will start to notice you. After a time, opportunities will start to present themselves. Grab them and don't be afraid of change.

Follow those simple tips and in no time you'll have your goals.

Last but not least, never give up. If you can't attack something head on, attack it from the side. Chip away at it. Just never give up. Visualize success.
 

RecoveringAFC

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Aldaris you said it:
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If you really want something bad enough and work hard enough you will succeed. You may not become super rich or famous but you can make it if you really want to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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