"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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naes420

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i am 17 ONLY, and want to pursue a career in medicine and become a doctor of internal medicine, i dont have any "positive" adult infulences in my life right now. be honest, as adults, how many of you have pursued dreams and failed...i just want to know, it sure as hell wont stop me from pursueing mine, but i always liek to know the statistics.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ridingthelightning

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I don't know anyone that truly pursued their dreams and didn't make it.
Go after it with complete and relentless pursuit and you'll make it. Especially in the medical field. The more effort you put into school the more it pays off. I'm technically premed and my brother is now a doctor, we both pursue whatever we want and more often than not we've gotten it.
 

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Ridingthelightning said:
I don't know anyone that truly pursued their dreams and didn't make it.
Go after it with complete and relentless pursuit and you'll make it. Especially in the medical field. The more effort you put into school the more it pays off. I'm technically premed and my brother is now a doctor, we both pursue whatever we want and more often than not we've gotten it.
what about all the jocks who dreamed of making it to the pros? all the rockers who dreamed of playing in front of 50,000 screaming fans? many of those pursured their dreams with intense passion. most ended up with a life of broken dreams.

school is so that the elites can have mid-level management.
 

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I'm loving my life and living my dream job. I work in IT and wouldn't change for anything except to maybe teach IT. Personally I love computers.

At your age the two smartest things you can do is:
1. Get excellent grades. Med School is tough to get in to. Get good grades
2. Make sure you surround yourself with as many positive people as possible

If you're around a lot of partying junkie type friends. Loose them. You need to be around other positive college/university bound friends. They'll help keep you focused.

Find ways to get an early foothold in your career. Talk to Doctors, volunteer, talk to people, network, anything. People will start to notice you. After a time, opportunities will start to present themselves. Grab them and don't be afraid of change.

Follow those simple tips and in no time you'll have your goals.

Last but not least, never give up. If you can't attack something head on, attack it from the side. Chip away at it. Just never give up. Visualize success.
 

RecoveringAFC

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Aldaris you said it:
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If you really want something bad enough and work hard enough you will succeed. You may not become super rich or famous but you can make it if you really want to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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