"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For once, I have a question...

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I posted this in the high school forum first, but it's been a while and I haven't had a reply so I figure I'd post it here.

Backstory first...

There's a girl in one of my classes that I met maybe a month or so ago when we grouped up to work on a project. This cutie's name is Paige and she seemed interested but mentioned her boyfriend once in conversation so I didn't really pursue.

I got stuck here on Easter Break and on Wednesday she texts me randomly asking me to hangout. I go over to her place, watch a movie, find out that she broke up with her boyfriend a little over a week ago, and get an awesome BJ.

Fast forward to today and I've f***ed this chick 5 times and I'm considering making her my girlfriend. That's something I haven't even thought of doing since sophomore year of high school...she's hot, really naughty, and what I like about her is that she's a nerd and likes to play Xbox and computer games like Starcraft and Runescape.

I've hung out with her outside the bedroom a little bit, but that's always where we end up and it's fine by me. Tomorrow she's supposed to come over sometime to "celebrate" getting a tough test out of the way...

This girl has very high interest, and I'm thinking about asking her to be my girl tomorrow, but I just wanted some opinions as to whether or not this is too early. I wouldn't know, I've never been much of a relationship guy.

The way I see it, school lasts for about another month here, and I can afford to slow down for a little, save some money by not going out, work on my grades, and have a steady supply of great sex till the summer. I've been around the block a little and she may or may not have done the same, but tell me what you guys think...

Too soon or just right? Please don't give me your opinion if you've never had a girlfriend or sex or any of that. I need serious answers because I never consider getting tied down.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not too sure how to play this as every situation is different, but a lot of guys on here will tell you to wait until she brings it up or expresses that she wants a relationship.
 
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Let here do that. Why do you wanna willingly tie yourself down? Keep doing what you're doing and when she's ready she'll ask you upfront or start throwing little hints out. She'll appretiate it a whole lot more if you make her work for it.
 
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BPH said:
I posted this in the high school forum first, but it's been a while and I haven't had a reply so I figure I'd post it here.

Backstory first...

There's a girl in one of my classes that I met maybe a month or so ago when we grouped up to work on a project. This cutie's name is Paige and she seemed interested but mentioned her boyfriend once in conversation so I didn't really pursue.

I got stuck here on Easter Break and on Wednesday she texts me randomly asking me to hangout. I go over to her place, watch a movie, find out that she broke up with her boyfriend a little over a week ago, and get an awesome BJ.

Fast forward to today and I've f***ed this chick 5 times and I'm considering making her my girlfriend. That's something I haven't even thought of doing since sophomore year of high school...she's hot, really naughty, and what I like about her is that she's a nerd and likes to play Xbox and computer games like Starcraft and Runescape.

I've hung out with her outside the bedroom a little bit, but that's always where we end up and it's fine by me. Tomorrow she's supposed to come over sometime to "celebrate" getting a tough test out of the way...

This girl has very high interest, and I'm thinking about asking her to be my girl tomorrow, but I just wanted some opinions as to whether or not this is too early. I wouldn't know, I've never been much of a relationship guy.

The way I see it, school lasts for about another month here, and I can afford to slow down for a little, save some money by not going out, work on my grades, and have a steady supply of great sex till the summer. I've been around the block a little and she may or may not have done the same, but tell me what you guys think...

Too soon or just right? Please don't give me your opinion if you've never had a girlfriend or sex or any of that. I need serious answers because I never consider getting tied down.
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B it's been a month. Ask the chick out. Period.

Do you and forget these SS "Alpha" weirdos. Good luck!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have had a lot of girlfriends. I never once asked any of them "will you be my girlfriend?" It's not a conversation you want to initiate as a guy. If you have sex with her for long enough, she will start calling you her boyfriend.
 
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keep the ass coming but you might just be a rebound dude. Enjoy it and don't develop real feelings --- good work on parlaying everything
 
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Lol idk why dudes even bother asking for advice when they don't follow it. Not one person said that you should ask her. Oh well..my advice from now on is to do what you want and if you make a mistake hopefully you'll learn from it.
 
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JoeMarron said:
Lol idk why dudes even bother asking for advice when they don't follow it. Not one person said that you should ask her. Oh well..my advice from now on is to do what you want and if you make a mistake hopefully you'll learn from it.
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NaughtyNinja did. Most of the people in the discussion forum are keyboard jockeys with high reps and no poon. That's part of the reason I posted it in the high school forum first, because there I know who's good and who's not.

I understand most guys are chumps on here that don't follow the advice they're given, don't worry, I'm not some noob. I'm just not familiar with relationships.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BPH said:
NaughtyNinja did. Most of the people in the discussion forum are keyboard jockeys with high reps and no poon. That's part of the reason I posted it in the high school forum first, because there I know who's good and who's not.

I understand most guys are chumps on here that don't follow the advice they're given, don't worry, I'm not some noob. I'm just not familiar with relationships.
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B You just try the relationship thing out. If it works it works. It doesn't it doesn't. You've been getting more azz than 90% of this site regardless. You've got nothing to prove to random strangers on the net.

If it doesn't work out you go back to doing what you were doing before the relationship. Getting more chicks. Simple.
 
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