"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For muscular guys, what guru/style/approach would be most compatible?

The_Reaper

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I read something recently that gave me pause: if you’re a muscular, intimidating-looking guy, then you should ease up on the ****y-funny, and ease up on the arrogance overall, or you might look like an assh*le.

Up until now, I hadn’t given much thought to matching approaches to your physical appearance.

What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Unique

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The_Reaper said:
I read something recently that gave me pause: if you’re a muscular, intimidating-looking guy, then you should ease up on the ****y-funny, and ease up on the arrogance overall, or you might look like an assh*le.

Up until now, I hadn’t given much thought to matching approaches to your physical appearance.

What do you think?
Juggler
 

Lust

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It's true.

My being such a prick and arrogance is the single thing that is hurting my game the most right now.

Being pretty muscular, being too ****y really doesn't help.

Mr Unique is right, Juggler is a great method.

Of course the ****y and funny can work, just don't overdo it.
 

Interceptor

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JUggler teaches you how to interact with a command, a presence, charming, and interesting. You're able to convey deep emotions and aslo humor to her, and you will learn to read signals, escalate, change the nature of the interaction, and increase attraction by being able to speak your mind with imagination, comfortably, and confidently.
Juggler teaches the mechanics of interactions.

A good conversationalist is able to build attraction , rapport, DHV, and control the direction of the interaction.
The better you are abloe to do this, with calm, realxed, confidence, the more attractive you will be to women.
WHy?
Because of your command of communication.
Women love to communicate. The bond by communication. They can asertain situations with good communication. They can feel comfortable around a man who can convey his feelings, and creatuivity, romantically and seductively to a woman.
Juggler is by far the best of the Gurus with specialization in just how to be a good communicator, listener, and build rapport and attraction.

http://www.charismaarts.com/

I recommend Juggler.
The Gunwitch Method.http://www.scribd.com/doc/3665/GUNWITCH-Gunwitch-Method-1
Pook
Anti Dump
Hypnoticahttp://www.hypnotica.org/
Spirit Fingers http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OraQHpHvB3I&mode=related&search=
(I'm a tall, muscular guy. I have been told I can be intimidating. I am Alpha as well. And my approaches, and interactions must be tailor made for my personality and image. Bottom line, I know what I'm good at already. Certain things that may be good for Betas/Omegas would NOT be good for me.
But there are some very strong commonalities, and threads that we all use as fundamentals. This is the truth. Be sure to have your own style. Always be true to yourself. And find things that resonate with you. YOU must above all else, be CONGRUENT. Learn, and then apply.)
..and a few select details from Mystery, Doc Love, Davod DeAngelo,Michael W, and Ross Jeffries.
They have certain things that will help you round out your game, and fill in pieces of the puzzle.
I do not believe they are above learning from the fundamentals of Pook, but like I said, bits and pieces are useful. Learn to have a "discerning mind".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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