"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For muscular guys, what guru/style/approach would be most compatible?

The_Reaper

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I read something recently that gave me pause: if you’re a muscular, intimidating-looking guy, then you should ease up on the ****y-funny, and ease up on the arrogance overall, or you might look like an assh*le.

Up until now, I hadn’t given much thought to matching approaches to your physical appearance.

What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr. Unique

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The_Reaper said:
I read something recently that gave me pause: if you’re a muscular, intimidating-looking guy, then you should ease up on the ****y-funny, and ease up on the arrogance overall, or you might look like an assh*le.

Up until now, I hadn’t given much thought to matching approaches to your physical appearance.

What do you think?
Juggler
 

Lust

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It's true.

My being such a prick and arrogance is the single thing that is hurting my game the most right now.

Being pretty muscular, being too ****y really doesn't help.

Mr Unique is right, Juggler is a great method.

Of course the ****y and funny can work, just don't overdo it.
 

Interceptor

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JUggler teaches you how to interact with a command, a presence, charming, and interesting. You're able to convey deep emotions and aslo humor to her, and you will learn to read signals, escalate, change the nature of the interaction, and increase attraction by being able to speak your mind with imagination, comfortably, and confidently.
Juggler teaches the mechanics of interactions.

A good conversationalist is able to build attraction , rapport, DHV, and control the direction of the interaction.
The better you are abloe to do this, with calm, realxed, confidence, the more attractive you will be to women.
WHy?
Because of your command of communication.
Women love to communicate. The bond by communication. They can asertain situations with good communication. They can feel comfortable around a man who can convey his feelings, and creatuivity, romantically and seductively to a woman.
Juggler is by far the best of the Gurus with specialization in just how to be a good communicator, listener, and build rapport and attraction.

http://www.charismaarts.com/

I recommend Juggler.
The Gunwitch Method.http://www.scribd.com/doc/3665/GUNWITCH-Gunwitch-Method-1
Pook
Anti Dump
Hypnoticahttp://www.hypnotica.org/
Spirit Fingers http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OraQHpHvB3I&mode=related&search=
(I'm a tall, muscular guy. I have been told I can be intimidating. I am Alpha as well. And my approaches, and interactions must be tailor made for my personality and image. Bottom line, I know what I'm good at already. Certain things that may be good for Betas/Omegas would NOT be good for me.
But there are some very strong commonalities, and threads that we all use as fundamentals. This is the truth. Be sure to have your own style. Always be true to yourself. And find things that resonate with you. YOU must above all else, be CONGRUENT. Learn, and then apply.)
..and a few select details from Mystery, Doc Love, Davod DeAngelo,Michael W, and Ross Jeffries.
They have certain things that will help you round out your game, and fill in pieces of the puzzle.
I do not believe they are above learning from the fundamentals of Pook, but like I said, bits and pieces are useful. Learn to have a "discerning mind".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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