"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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For muscular guys, what guru/style/approach would be most compatible?

The_Reaper

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I read something recently that gave me pause: if you’re a muscular, intimidating-looking guy, then you should ease up on the ****y-funny, and ease up on the arrogance overall, or you might look like an assh*le.

Up until now, I hadn’t given much thought to matching approaches to your physical appearance.

What do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mr. Unique

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The_Reaper said:
I read something recently that gave me pause: if you’re a muscular, intimidating-looking guy, then you should ease up on the ****y-funny, and ease up on the arrogance overall, or you might look like an assh*le.

Up until now, I hadn’t given much thought to matching approaches to your physical appearance.

What do you think?
Juggler
 

Lust

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It's true.

My being such a prick and arrogance is the single thing that is hurting my game the most right now.

Being pretty muscular, being too ****y really doesn't help.

Mr Unique is right, Juggler is a great method.

Of course the ****y and funny can work, just don't overdo it.
 

Interceptor

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JUggler teaches you how to interact with a command, a presence, charming, and interesting. You're able to convey deep emotions and aslo humor to her, and you will learn to read signals, escalate, change the nature of the interaction, and increase attraction by being able to speak your mind with imagination, comfortably, and confidently.
Juggler teaches the mechanics of interactions.

A good conversationalist is able to build attraction , rapport, DHV, and control the direction of the interaction.
The better you are abloe to do this, with calm, realxed, confidence, the more attractive you will be to women.
WHy?
Because of your command of communication.
Women love to communicate. The bond by communication. They can asertain situations with good communication. They can feel comfortable around a man who can convey his feelings, and creatuivity, romantically and seductively to a woman.
Juggler is by far the best of the Gurus with specialization in just how to be a good communicator, listener, and build rapport and attraction.

http://www.charismaarts.com/

I recommend Juggler.
The Gunwitch Method.http://www.scribd.com/doc/3665/GUNWITCH-Gunwitch-Method-1
Pook
Anti Dump
Hypnoticahttp://www.hypnotica.org/
Spirit Fingers http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OraQHpHvB3I&mode=related&search=
(I'm a tall, muscular guy. I have been told I can be intimidating. I am Alpha as well. And my approaches, and interactions must be tailor made for my personality and image. Bottom line, I know what I'm good at already. Certain things that may be good for Betas/Omegas would NOT be good for me.
But there are some very strong commonalities, and threads that we all use as fundamentals. This is the truth. Be sure to have your own style. Always be true to yourself. And find things that resonate with you. YOU must above all else, be CONGRUENT. Learn, and then apply.)
..and a few select details from Mystery, Doc Love, Davod DeAngelo,Michael W, and Ross Jeffries.
They have certain things that will help you round out your game, and fill in pieces of the puzzle.
I do not believe they are above learning from the fundamentals of Pook, but like I said, bits and pieces are useful. Learn to have a "discerning mind".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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