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For every 10 guys women get asked out...how many are in person

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I had a chit chat with a friend today at work and she was telling me about how women get asked and how they prioritize their options....

With social media, OLD, hook up aps, etc, porn, etc

How manu out of every 10 guys women get asked out are in person?
 

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I'd say probably not that many. I'm sure it happens.. but guys seem to think FB is a dating app and love to shoot their shot there. Have you actually been inside a woman's inbox? The thirst is real.
 

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I'd say probably not that many. I'm sure it happens.. but guys seem to think FB is a dating app and love to shoot their shot there. Have you actually been inside a woman's inbox? The thirst is real.
Maybe a long time ago ... like YEARS ago.
I don't have social media nor OLD/apps and ask out in person. Even though we may (in person) have the woman excited that she got asked out in person I think she still sees us as a collective group with the rest
 

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Maybe a long time ago ... like YEARS ago.
I don't have social media nor OLD/apps and ask out in person. Even though we may (in person) have the woman excited that she got asked out in person I think she still sees us as a collective group with the rest
So you're speaking on behalf of all men everywhere? Because I got a 100 girls that are saying something completely different. If you think guys don't use the internet to safely ask girls out from a distance, you are delusional.
 

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So you're speaking on behalf of all men everywhere? Because I got a 100 girls that are saying something completely different. If you think guys don't use the internet to safely ask girls out from a distance, you are delusional.
No man I'm saying I think women see all guys as the same who ask them out as a collective group of guys asking them out....let's say 3 in person , 5 online....I think she sees them as '8 options'
 

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No man I'm saying I think women see all guys as the same who ask them out as a collective group of guys asking them out....let's say 3 in person , 5 online....I think she sees them as '8 options'
Yeah, I don't think it matters whether it's online or in person. The woman still gets an ego rush, and feels sexy/wanted. A lot of women openly seek validation from men, even though they have no intention of ever dating them.
 

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I imagine the number of guys she gets messages from on tinder must be insane. hundreds, if not thousands (Assuming baseline level of attractiveness).

She won't get excited about being asked out in person, unless she is physically attracted to the guy. If she's not attracted to you, she will just say she has a boyfriend, even if she doesn't have one. That's why, I don't feel like you're gaining anything by being bold enough to ask a girl out in person, unless she has known you for a while and has been able to screen you.
 

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I get asked out predominantly in person. Or by text after having met in person. But I also don’t do OLD. I don’t have time to weed out all the bozos on OLD...and I meet men through being out and about in social circles.

Aside from that I prefer to get a feel for how a man behaves in person.

That way I know already whether or not I find him attractive and whether or not I find him interesting enough to go out with.
 

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I imagine the number of guys she gets messages from on tinder must be insane. hundreds, if not thousands (Assuming baseline level of attractiveness).

She won't get excited about being asked out in person, unless she is physically attracted to the guy. If she's not attracted to you, she will just say she has a boyfriend, even if she doesn't have one. That's why, I don't feel like you're gaining anything by being bold enough to ask a girl out in person, unless she has known you for a while and has been able to screen you.
Male thirst is pretty much the sole scourge of humanity. Morbidly obese women in their 60's with 9 kids, 3 eyes and 1 leg have more abundance than Brad Pitt.
 

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Male thirst is pretty much the sole scourge of humanity. Morbidly obese women in their 60's with 9 kids, 3 eyes and 1 leg have more abundance than Brad Pitt.
Well, somebody has to keep the species going, I guess. So much for survival of the fittest. It's more like crabs in a bucket.
 
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