"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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After you have conversation with a gurl, what do you guys usually do after... with them?
NOTE: Im Talkin bout gurls u would just wanna bang and have no interest of having a relationship.

For Example:1st day of class, see a HB and talk to her.

What do u guys usually do after you talk to them? Get their number, call them to Invite them to your dorm room or what?

Please be indepth, im arriving next friday(8/20), so i wanna know.

:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wanna field this one even though i've been out of college for a while, the advice is universal.

For your first year in college, you have to remember that everyone is eager, VERY eager to meet new people, make new friends and basically FIT IN.

From the first day you sign in at your dorm and move in, show EVERYONE you are a fun guy that EVERYONE should get to know. Smile a lot, laugh a lot, introduce yourself, go out of your way to get to know people. For the first week of dormlife before classes start, everyone is more receptive to meeting and getting to know new people.

As for your p/u...get her number and ask her which dorm she lives in...dont automatically assume a ONS..for the first week of college, I'd just scan the field, make connections, see which girls you can get away with ONS, and which girls gossip about everything..because trust me, if you f*ck up with a girl who gossips to everyone, she'll ruin your rep fast....

When you get the number..ask which dorm she lives in, and then tell her that you'd like to check out her dorm because you want to compare size, look, views, etc..these are great excuses to invite yourself to her place....mingle, network, get into her social network..

and...do this with as many girls as possible, as soon as possible - as soon as you know it, you'll know a bunch of people in your classes and boom....huge network..
 

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Damn. Thats hella good advise. Thanx alot dude. Any more people wanna answer? lol
 

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If your are going for an engineering major, you are already HALF FVCKED girls-wise.:mad:

Don't wanna be harsh, just so that you know what to expect...:D
 

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get involved. join a sports team. throw parties. join associations. be the leader of a local club or association.organize meetings. cultural, music, sports, huge parties, whatever. get yourself visible

and soon everyone, including HB10s, would want to be with you. u won't even have to invite people, they'll figh to go with you. you choose.

field-tested and 100% efficient. 100% fun too. was the head of the local TV club and was member of the association who organised the parties. (although i'm talking about what i did in my campus, in france, but i think it would be the same thing out there in the states)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh aright. Kick ass advice. Yea, im a IT major. Damnit. Hope, that it won't matter in the end. Even with work study, u think a guy can still join a club?
 

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Salut 2xp, ca boom?:D

More seriously, although the principles are the same, rules are a little different here in the States. There are NO "soirees etudiantes" (school sponsored huge student parties) here, because of the damn stupid American liquor laws. And when there are "parties" or "activities", no one (especially NOT the HBs, only the UGs who have no friends would go) goes there because there's NO ALCOHOL.

Here if you want tones of good looking "easy girls", you need to join what is called a "frat" (fraternity). Although your academic performance might suffer seriously from that though...:eek:
 

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Heyjose25points:

Where are you? If it's not in the USA, it won't help you.
I know they have fraternities and sororities in Canada, but since you can drink starting from 18, fraternities are just not interesting anymore.

Ok I will still put a little insight in case you live in the USA.
Basically fraternities are "good" because all the freshmen/sophomore/junior girls have NOWHERE to party since they are 21- and can not go to bars. so the only places where they can get booze and party and "have fun" is either some older (seniors or grad students) students' house or frat parties. Apartment parties tend to be small, so probably not always fun, so frat parties are a must.
And fraternities are not stupid, they only let in girls (especially the good looking ones) and guys THEY KNOW and of course their members (the brothers), so basically you get these huge harems of HBs who have nowhere else to party, get wasted and you know...:rolleyes: all for just a few lucky "insiders".
So if you like that kind of life style, go ahead...:eek:

I know I will get flamed by former/current frat boys, but I still need to say this:
If it's not because of the girls (again due to the stupid American liquor laws), fraternities have NOTHING to offer.
Who would want to pay money to live in a crappy/smelly/dirty house with other guys (although some "fraternities" are mixed) only to get his GPA dragged down to around 2.0 out of 4.0?:confused: I know I won't...:eek:
:D
 

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Yea, I live in the USA. Aright thanx alot 4 ur info. Appreciate it. But aren't frats hard to get into?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
If your are going for an engineering major, you are already HALF FVCKED girls-wise.:mad:

Don't wanna be harsh, just so that you know what to expect...:D
Not true. Alot of HB's are mathematics majors. Math and engineering go hand in hand. I am a math major now, but alot of my friends are electrical engineers and we had a ton of HB's in our calculus classes.
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
If your are going for an engineering major, you are already HALF FVCKED girls-wise.:mad:

Don't wanna be harsh, just so that you know what to expect...:D
Somewhat true. When doing basics its not that bad. But once you get into you latter years in the technical courses then its a choice between a ugly chick or that chick who could possibly be a transexual in your class.

Anyway. Mechanical and Aerospace Engineer Major here.
 

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Originally posted by DJUofS
Not true. Alot of HB's are mathematics majors. Math and engineering go hand in hand. I am a math major now, but alot of my friends are electrical engineers and we had a ton of HB's in our calculus classes.
:eek:
You must live in a dream world!

Where do you go to college???
:confused:

Wait, we are NOT talking about "math majors" who just wanna be high school teachers here right? You mean "real maths" right?;)
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
:eek:
You must live in a dream world!

Where do you go to college???
:confused:
University of Scranton. Has about 5000 undergrad students and quite a few HBs. Maybe my school is a rare exception to the rule... but i've seen a few quite nice looking girls in some harder math courses.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by DJUofS
University of Scranton. Has about 5000 undergrad students and quite a few HBs. Maybe my school is a rare exception to the rule... but i've seen a few quite nice looking girls in some harder math courses.
Thats true I had a couple of babes in Cal I, II and III. Thats right young ones theres three of them.

:eek:
 

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My good friend is studying for his Mathematics PhD at MIT. There are very few females that he encounters. There are more females in biological departments but not math.
 

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Computer Science majors (like me) have it the worst by far. Last semester in my CS102 class there were exactly seven girls in a class of about 75...and none of them were even moderately attractive.

But then again, parties are always a much better place for pick-ups and especially ONSs. Don't get too upset if there are no HBs in your classes, there are PLENTY of other places in college to pick up girls, and you don't need the distraction during class anyways.

And yes, I do recommend joining a frat.
 

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Wat do guys do in Frats? Explain everything. Can u join a Fraternity and do work study at the same time? :confused: Plus, are Frats very hard to join?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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