"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heyjose25points

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After you have conversation with a gurl, what do you guys usually do after... with them?
NOTE: Im Talkin bout gurls u would just wanna bang and have no interest of having a relationship.

For Example:1st day of class, see a HB and talk to her.

What do u guys usually do after you talk to them? Get their number, call them to Invite them to your dorm room or what?

Please be indepth, im arriving next friday(8/20), so i wanna know.

:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wanna field this one even though i've been out of college for a while, the advice is universal.

For your first year in college, you have to remember that everyone is eager, VERY eager to meet new people, make new friends and basically FIT IN.

From the first day you sign in at your dorm and move in, show EVERYONE you are a fun guy that EVERYONE should get to know. Smile a lot, laugh a lot, introduce yourself, go out of your way to get to know people. For the first week of dormlife before classes start, everyone is more receptive to meeting and getting to know new people.

As for your p/u...get her number and ask her which dorm she lives in...dont automatically assume a ONS..for the first week of college, I'd just scan the field, make connections, see which girls you can get away with ONS, and which girls gossip about everything..because trust me, if you f*ck up with a girl who gossips to everyone, she'll ruin your rep fast....

When you get the number..ask which dorm she lives in, and then tell her that you'd like to check out her dorm because you want to compare size, look, views, etc..these are great excuses to invite yourself to her place....mingle, network, get into her social network..

and...do this with as many girls as possible, as soon as possible - as soon as you know it, you'll know a bunch of people in your classes and boom....huge network..
 

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Damn. Thats hella good advise. Thanx alot dude. Any more people wanna answer? lol
 

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If your are going for an engineering major, you are already HALF FVCKED girls-wise.:mad:

Don't wanna be harsh, just so that you know what to expect...:D
 

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get involved. join a sports team. throw parties. join associations. be the leader of a local club or association.organize meetings. cultural, music, sports, huge parties, whatever. get yourself visible

and soon everyone, including HB10s, would want to be with you. u won't even have to invite people, they'll figh to go with you. you choose.

field-tested and 100% efficient. 100% fun too. was the head of the local TV club and was member of the association who organised the parties. (although i'm talking about what i did in my campus, in france, but i think it would be the same thing out there in the states)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heyjose25points

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Oh aright. Kick ass advice. Yea, im a IT major. Damnit. Hope, that it won't matter in the end. Even with work study, u think a guy can still join a club?
 

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Salut 2xp, ca boom?:D

More seriously, although the principles are the same, rules are a little different here in the States. There are NO "soirees etudiantes" (school sponsored huge student parties) here, because of the damn stupid American liquor laws. And when there are "parties" or "activities", no one (especially NOT the HBs, only the UGs who have no friends would go) goes there because there's NO ALCOHOL.

Here if you want tones of good looking "easy girls", you need to join what is called a "frat" (fraternity). Although your academic performance might suffer seriously from that though...:eek:
 

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Heyjose25points:

Where are you? If it's not in the USA, it won't help you.
I know they have fraternities and sororities in Canada, but since you can drink starting from 18, fraternities are just not interesting anymore.

Ok I will still put a little insight in case you live in the USA.
Basically fraternities are "good" because all the freshmen/sophomore/junior girls have NOWHERE to party since they are 21- and can not go to bars. so the only places where they can get booze and party and "have fun" is either some older (seniors or grad students) students' house or frat parties. Apartment parties tend to be small, so probably not always fun, so frat parties are a must.
And fraternities are not stupid, they only let in girls (especially the good looking ones) and guys THEY KNOW and of course their members (the brothers), so basically you get these huge harems of HBs who have nowhere else to party, get wasted and you know...:rolleyes: all for just a few lucky "insiders".
So if you like that kind of life style, go ahead...:eek:

I know I will get flamed by former/current frat boys, but I still need to say this:
If it's not because of the girls (again due to the stupid American liquor laws), fraternities have NOTHING to offer.
Who would want to pay money to live in a crappy/smelly/dirty house with other guys (although some "fraternities" are mixed) only to get his GPA dragged down to around 2.0 out of 4.0?:confused: I know I won't...:eek:
:D
 

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Yea, I live in the USA. Aright thanx alot 4 ur info. Appreciate it. But aren't frats hard to get into?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
If your are going for an engineering major, you are already HALF FVCKED girls-wise.:mad:

Don't wanna be harsh, just so that you know what to expect...:D
Not true. Alot of HB's are mathematics majors. Math and engineering go hand in hand. I am a math major now, but alot of my friends are electrical engineers and we had a ton of HB's in our calculus classes.
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
If your are going for an engineering major, you are already HALF FVCKED girls-wise.:mad:

Don't wanna be harsh, just so that you know what to expect...:D
Somewhat true. When doing basics its not that bad. But once you get into you latter years in the technical courses then its a choice between a ugly chick or that chick who could possibly be a transexual in your class.

Anyway. Mechanical and Aerospace Engineer Major here.
 

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Originally posted by DJUofS
Not true. Alot of HB's are mathematics majors. Math and engineering go hand in hand. I am a math major now, but alot of my friends are electrical engineers and we had a ton of HB's in our calculus classes.
:eek:
You must live in a dream world!

Where do you go to college???
:confused:

Wait, we are NOT talking about "math majors" who just wanna be high school teachers here right? You mean "real maths" right?;)
 

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Originally posted by Le Parisien
:eek:
You must live in a dream world!

Where do you go to college???
:confused:
University of Scranton. Has about 5000 undergrad students and quite a few HBs. Maybe my school is a rare exception to the rule... but i've seen a few quite nice looking girls in some harder math courses.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Originally posted by DJUofS
University of Scranton. Has about 5000 undergrad students and quite a few HBs. Maybe my school is a rare exception to the rule... but i've seen a few quite nice looking girls in some harder math courses.
Thats true I had a couple of babes in Cal I, II and III. Thats right young ones theres three of them.

:eek:
 

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My good friend is studying for his Mathematics PhD at MIT. There are very few females that he encounters. There are more females in biological departments but not math.
 

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Computer Science majors (like me) have it the worst by far. Last semester in my CS102 class there were exactly seven girls in a class of about 75...and none of them were even moderately attractive.

But then again, parties are always a much better place for pick-ups and especially ONSs. Don't get too upset if there are no HBs in your classes, there are PLENTY of other places in college to pick up girls, and you don't need the distraction during class anyways.

And yes, I do recommend joining a frat.
 

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Wat do guys do in Frats? Explain everything. Can u join a Fraternity and do work study at the same time? :confused: Plus, are Frats very hard to join?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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