"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For all you college upperclassmen

spesmilitis

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Freshmen girls are easy. They're impressed pretty easy. I mean, I wasn't even trying, and they ate up everything I told em. The highschool boys they've been dating don't compare to us.

Me and some buds went around the freshmen dorms talking to girls, inviting them to our party. We got good reception. We gave em our number, and told em to call a few hours before the party so we can tell em what to say to our bouncer to get in.

If you're gonna try this, be carefull not to get cought by the RA's.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yuriy777

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When I went to visit a freshman guy friend of mine at his college I just picked up the RA...
She was cute and everything was great after that.

Good stuff though. :up:
 

cefiro

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Agreed! Im a senior in college, and the last couple years I have been able to pick up girls just because of my age / maturity. I would never date a freshman girl, but they are nice to hook up with.

Next year comes the big step when im out of college, and have to fend for myself in the real world.
 

Babnik

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Here is a good question...

I live on campus and we have 2 main hang out places with bars and clubs.
We have a movie theater that nobody goes to.
We have football games and parties.


Where do you invite girls when you want to hang out with them for the first time?

I know of some parties but JESUS do girls get run over by guys at parties and I just hate that competition.

I mean, we have places to eat and StarBucks.

I am not sure many girls will go hang out in clubs on the first date!
 

Yuriy777

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Babnik said:
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Where do you invite girls when you want to hang out with them for the first time?
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What kind of question is that?
Your room of course! Hang out, watch a movie, give her screaming orgasms, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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