"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
For all the castrated men who can't deal with the stress of life
- Thread starter The Bad Ass Canadian
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BBX
Master Don Juan
everything is going to be allright
The_flying_dutchman
Senior Don Juan
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This is an honest question: Was that vid just a joke or was this dude actually serious?
Docs
Banned
But he's so cute!!!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ShizamDaMan
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Wow. What a f*cking psycho. I think he may kill himself after all the public ridicule.
Maybe if it had a spout for vodka...
Maybe if it had a spout for vodka...
shydude
Master Don Juan
WDF was that...............
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
samependo, that gave me a funny idea, imagine chucky as this doll. hahaha
BBX
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Jariel said:Holy sh1t!
What they didn't show you was the little rip in it's ass for those lonely nights.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
That guy was a fvcking fag.
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
WTF was that sh1t.
picard
Master Don Juan
that guy is weird. really weird !!! I never seen a guy with a doll other than collecting barbie for monetary reason.
legolas
Master Don Juan
That guy sounded like he was fighting to be straight when he was in reality gay. I wonder what show that was?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.