"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For all dumbas haters on my last thread

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Personally you lost my respect by calling people here stupid. You didn't say it directly to me but it pissed me off because calling people who want to give you some proper advice and help you here stupid is a d1ck move. It's also very immature, alpha guys like you say you are, don't act like that.
No one was hater like you said, no reason for it. We just said you the truth that you didn't want to believe at.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fvck her she got enough attention from me. She can svck a d2ck, get cheated on again and cry like a baby. Fvckkkk her. Idgaf about her, she has ugly legs misformed as$

thing is don’t tell me I make beginner mistakes when I told u, I d I d. N o t wanted to fck her until her ex came along then my interest peaked! Too ****ing late!!! Don’t tell me I got no game god damnit.
 

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Know what? I always read your posts in a Robert DeNiro accent...you know, like he narrates in the movie Casino.

Just thought you should know.

Wondered what had happened to you & your stream of consciousness posts. You decided you wanted her after she decided to choose someone else. Meh. It happens. Sometimes it’s timing. Come on....you already know that...

Nice to see your bombastic ass back on here, lol. A place like this does well to have a few colorful characters :)

Cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This thread is so full of Lol.

Bro, lighten up and remember that in life. If you get this bothered over all the little things, you're not going to last long in life. This type of uneasiness will affect your health, make you age faster, affect your relationships with everyone.

I think you need to examine your innerself and not so much your employee or the members on here. Fix that and it will definitely help you in the long run.
 

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Dating a co-worker can lead to full blown legal issues, especially if your the owner.

Like if she claimed rape, she could potentially escalate that to kidnapping/black mail just over the fact that your in a position of power.

I don't know that you are fully aware of these things, there can also be outlier circumstances that exist in every state or country, like this for example
 

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another one; this is not a random forum too me, I’m passionate about this. I love the forum, I take it personal.
You shouldn't take anything on this forum personally, you'll only end up tearing yourself apart if you do. Some guys in the past took it WAAAY too seriously and many of those aren't around anymore...

Anyways, seems like the case is closed regarding this chick. You did end up following our advice, just not in the way we expected.
 

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Dating a co-worker can lead to full blown legal issues, especially if your the owner.

Like if she claimed rape, she could potentially escalate that to kidnapping/black mail just over the fact that your in a position of power.

I don't know that you are fully aware of these things, there can also be outlier circumstances that exist in every state or country, like this for example
OP is not in the US but in the Netherlands. Laws are likely different.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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still the internet tribunal is far worse and can kill your reputation, worse it can kill your bussiness.

this is kinda new here, there is a news worthy telling one acused of rape was abolved, since the girl obviously lied, but thanks for the news manipulation plus people not willing to read (or can't read) are crying out telling the whole case was bought, acusing the judge, atorney and
district Attorney of unlawfull practice, then there is the old opportunistic politician trying to get something out of it

you really think they will have way to save tehy reputation now? is said the judge will sue the people, but the damage is done, and I don't want even to know what will happen to the one who was false acused
 

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still the internet tribunal is far worse and can kill your reputation, worse it can kill your bussiness.

this is kinda new here, there is a news worthy telling one acused of rape was abolved, since the girl obviously lied, but thanks for the news manipulation plus people not willing to read (or can't read) are crying out telling the whole case was bought, acusing the judge, atorney and
district Attorney of unlawfull practice, then there is the old opportunistic politician trying to get something out of it

you really think they will have way to save tehy reputation now? is said the judge will sue the people, but the damage is done, and I don't want even to know what will happen to the one who was false acused
A rape accusation can ruin your life.

Look at the backlash Joe Rogan is getting just for having Alex Jones on, people are claiming his podcast is a vehicle for intolerance, yet they were celebrating his deal not a month ago.

These accusations often have ulterior motives.
 

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You should probably avoid hiring women that you want to bang. Otherwise you end up in the "Boss Zone", which is even worse than the friend zone because at least you can leave that at any time without getting sued.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TL;DR

I've never read your threads because it's obvious you're full of yourself. This just proves that I was right and you have zero ability to self-reflect.
 

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I've never read your threads because it's obvious you're full of yourself. This just proves that I was right and you have zero ability to self-reflect.
Whatever, you standard no one. No one cares about your existence bruhhh. Go walk along and make way for the real ones
 

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Definitely different when it comes to drugs...although the state of Oregon has voted to decriminalize all drugs now which will be pretty interesting to see how that plays out.
BLM can all overdose after burning and looting other people's property.

Seems like a win from where I stand.
 

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BLM can all overdose after burning and looting other people's property.

Seems like a win from where I stand.
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In my area, they keep opening new cannabis dispensaries and keep the liquor stores open as they are deemed "essential" businesses, yet you can't congregate in Church or get a hair cut. Go figure...
 

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In my area, they keep opening new cannabis dispensaries and keep the liquor stores open as they are deemed "essential" businesses, yet you can't congregate in Church or get a hair cut. Go figure...
Yep. Absolutely pathetic!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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