"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For a Girl that just got dumped...

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Let's say there's this girl (obviously, I'm interested in her) that just got dumped and seems pretty distraught over it. I know this isn't the time to be flirting but shouldn't I comfort her in some way (to build rapport or whatever...)? Is there anything in particular that would make a girl feel more comfortable after she got dumped?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just a warning: You don't want to be the guy she turns to every time she has guy problems. That's friends-zone.
 
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If she's a mate then yeah, but I take it she isn't- so stay the hell away. She has girly mates to deal with her teenage bull****, just like we have manly mates to deal with ours. Are you her girly mate? DO you want to be her girly mate? Then leave it to them.
 
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I was just thinking...

I wouldn't be there to "comfort" her or anything, but if you DO happen to talk to her and she brings it up, just a simple "he must be crazy" type compliment would be ok.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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