"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For a Girl that just got dumped...

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Let's say there's this girl (obviously, I'm interested in her) that just got dumped and seems pretty distraught over it. I know this isn't the time to be flirting but shouldn't I comfort her in some way (to build rapport or whatever...)? Is there anything in particular that would make a girl feel more comfortable after she got dumped?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just a warning: You don't want to be the guy she turns to every time she has guy problems. That's friends-zone.
 
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If she's a mate then yeah, but I take it she isn't- so stay the hell away. She has girly mates to deal with her teenage bull****, just like we have manly mates to deal with ours. Are you her girly mate? DO you want to be her girly mate? Then leave it to them.
 
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I was just thinking...

I wouldn't be there to "comfort" her or anything, but if you DO happen to talk to her and she brings it up, just a simple "he must be crazy" type compliment would be ok.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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