"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Foot Massage wtf.

HalfAddict

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A chick who is a friend of mine keeps asking me to come over and give her a foot massage and it's ****in weird.

I'm not going to of course. But do you think that it's appropriate to do so if you aren't boning.

I for one do not, seems kinda ***** made to go give some broad a foot massage then leave.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Start with the feet ... move up to her leg ... turn her onto her back and do neck / shoulders ... flip her back over so shes facing you again ... job done.

If I found the girl attractive I'd be on my way over there :)

I'd probably respond something along the lines of "Oh yeah, whats in it for me? ;)", for what its worth.
 

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She wants more.

However don't just go over there and do what she asks. Make her work for it. Tease her. I'll give you a foot massage but what's in it for me?

Foot massage = sex

If you play it right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trust me here:

You are on to something there, my friend..

That is just another way to get a woman to drop her pants. They love it..

FYI, I massage the feet of my 'main squeeze' in my truck (while driving), when we go to a movie and in bed after we make love...

I buy hand lotion by the case.....

Try it...She may give you some poon.....

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I'm not all that interested in her.. I realize I could escalate, and she is well aware that all I want is to fvck and not have a LTR with anyone. Her best friend is already hella pissed at me cause we were FB's and she was aware of this.. but wanted more and I wouldn't be her boyfriend. So there's probably some word of mouth there and she knows I don't want anything to do with her friend. So now she's been trying to get me, I know she is.. calling me texting me messages on facebook taking me out and buying me drinks. I'm not tarded lol.
There's a ****ton of social proof here, we've known each other for years, she knows everyone knows me.

Like I said a long time ago, don't fvck your friends that are chicks. I know many of you believe this is an impossibility to have girls that are friends. They are in our social circle and I'm not gonna run through every one of em.

Plus I'm leavin and goin to Oklahoma City soon.. Maybe I'll actually sarge there... I mean five years here and maybe one FR. Course it took me five years to make 300 posts. Either way my town is stale as fvck and there ain't **** worth reporting here anyways lol.
 

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Feet are gross! I'll never give a chick a foot massage, even if she's a HB10 and will fvck me once I've given it...

I'll rub her titties, though :rolleyes:
 
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