"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Foot fetish?

rapless

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Anyone here appreciate a woman with nice feet? I'm not a foot fetishist per se, but I can definitely take notice in a woman's feet if they're really nicely shaped, well-kept, and smooth-looking. Some women have pretty nasty feet.

I gotta admit, one thing I REALLY like seeing women in is those long, pointy, strapless high heeled shoes. They only expose the back half of her foot, but it really looks sexy on a woman.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I like women to have nice finger nails to look feminine. If she doesn't have nice finger nails it reallys turns me off. She can keep her socks on for all I'm concerned.
 

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ryannath said:
I like women to have nice finger nails to look feminine. If she doesn't have nice finger nails it reallys turns me off.
Amen, brotha.

I straight laugh in b!tches' faces when I have longer nails then they do and call them mechanics or lumberjacks.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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