"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crazy Asian

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what are some good foods to eat? i'm trying to gain muscle and reduce/stay the same with bf. as of right now, i don't think it's even possible for me to eat 3000+ calories a day with wut we got in the fridge, so gimme some examples of the stuff that you guys eat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Proteins:
* Red Meat
* Tuna
* Chicken
* Turkey
* Eggs
* Cottage cheese


Fats
* Olive oil
* flax seed
* Butter


carbs
* oats
* rice
* pasta


Veggies: all of them
Fruit: all of them


This is just the start.
 

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Stronglifts gave you a good list,I'll add to it;

-Unsalted Peanuts & Almonds

-For sugar,Fruits & Vegetables

-Fat Free Milk(You can slowly phase down from 2% if you want)

-The leanest Ground Beef you can get,whatever it is make on a George Foreman

-Ground Turkey

If you want to stay the same BF or possibly get leaner I would recommend staying away from bread and rice unless it's wheat bread or brown rice,in those cases I would still only eat them in the A.M. Just munch on Fruits or Vegies for your sugar,there are tons to choose from and they are cheap.
 
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