Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's not 120/0.5, it's 120*0.5=60 grams of fat.Originally posted by DJKondor:
but i cant get the fat levels to a decent amount as 120/.5 is 240g and im pretty sure that is waaaayyy over what its supposed to be, plus i cant find anything with high protein levels and low carb levels, any help is appreciated
Yes, it's totally normal.Originally posted by DJKondor:
cool man, i just went weight training for the first time and ive never seen my muscles grow so fast, theres a little problem though, is it normal for your arms to feel like they've bin hit with a great big hammer, they're really sore, even when you slightly press them, it really hurts, especially the biceps?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah its normal.. doesnt it just feel great? i love that feelingis it normal for your arms to feel like they've bin hit with a great big hammer, they're really sore, even when you slightly press them, it really hurts, especially the biceps?
I used to get so freakin sore I couldn't MOVE my arms two days later. Nowadays I can rip the hell out of them and feel little to nothing later.Originally posted by DJKondor:
theres a little problem though, is it normal for your arms to feel like they've bin hit with a great big hammer, they're really sore, even when you slightly press them, it really hurts, especially the biceps?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.