You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's not 120/0.5, it's 120*0.5=60 grams of fat.Originally posted by DJKondor:
but i cant get the fat levels to a decent amount as 120/.5 is 240g and im pretty sure that is waaaayyy over what its supposed to be, plus i cant find anything with high protein levels and low carb levels, any help is appreciated
Yes, it's totally normal.Originally posted by DJKondor:
cool man, i just went weight training for the first time and ive never seen my muscles grow so fast, theres a little problem though, is it normal for your arms to feel like they've bin hit with a great big hammer, they're really sore, even when you slightly press them, it really hurts, especially the biceps?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah its normal.. doesnt it just feel great? i love that feelingis it normal for your arms to feel like they've bin hit with a great big hammer, they're really sore, even when you slightly press them, it really hurts, especially the biceps?
I used to get so freakin sore I couldn't MOVE my arms two days later. Nowadays I can rip the hell out of them and feel little to nothing later.Originally posted by DJKondor:
theres a little problem though, is it normal for your arms to feel like they've bin hit with a great big hammer, they're really sore, even when you slightly press them, it really hurts, especially the biceps?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.