"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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hey i was just reading this article " weapons of mass seduction ", downloaded from the dj bible, and read about some of these interesting questions, and they worked pretty well.

Interesting Questions
dont ask too many questions, When you finally do ask questions, make them count.
- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
- What type of person makes the best lover?
- I like a woman who can cook well. What's your best dish?
- If we were a couple and I wanted to hang out with my friends till 2AM, how would that
make you feel?
- How would you seduce a gay man? (be prepared to tell her how you would seduce a
lesbian)
- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?

would be great if you guys add a few more such questions to the tally, also would be interesting to note how you would reply to these questions, because one thing is for sure, if you ask these questions to girls, they will probably expect a reply from you too, and as the article says " you need to be prepared with good answers"

my answers-

- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
ans: being with u ( for the girl i am talking to)

- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
exactly the way i felt when i saw u for the first time

- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?
ans: housefull.

waiting for your mind boggling questions and answers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Allow me to speak for everyone when I say...

PUKE!
 

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*Sniffs* Yep, AFC is in the air...
 

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Originally posted by flirty_intentions

my answers-

- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
ans: being with u ( for the girl i am talking to)


Please don't say that, ever.


- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
exactly the way i felt when i saw u for the first time


Wouldn't recommend that one either.


- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?
ans: housefull.


Not even sure what that means.
 

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Eh....*snicker*

A guy responds:
- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
Being paid to drive sports cars on the Autobahn.
- What type of person makes the best lover?
A girl with no gag reflex.
- I like a woman who can cook well. What's your best dish?
I can make a kick ass pizza.
- If we were a couple and I wanted to hang out with my friends till 2AM, how would that make you feel?
Don't call me to pick your drunk ass up.
- How would you seduce a gay man?
(be prepared to tell her how you would seduce a lesbian)
I'll tell her I have the Indigo Girls' Greatest Hits (God forbid there is one)
- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
I feel ok; usually her husband is standing right next to her.
- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?
One star; I gotta get my life some writers.

I know, it's for chicks. But no girls are going to come here and fill it out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
Making music

- What type of person makes the best lover?
An adventurous spirit

- I like a woman who can cook well. What's your best dish?
I hook up the broiled chicken like no one's business.

- If we were a couple and I wanted to hang out with my friends till 2AM, how would that
make you feel?
Make sure you bring a girl home for me and we could make it a group afterparty.

- How would you seduce a gay man? (be prepared to tell her how you would seduce a
lesbian)
I'd take her to a WNBA game.

- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
My **** gets hard.

- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?
NR, you can't rate my existence, as it transcends a mere rating scale.
 

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Originally posted by flirty_intentions

my answers-

- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
ans: being with u ( for the girl i am talking to)

- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
exactly the way i felt when i saw u for the first time

- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?
ans: housefull.

waiting for your mind boggling questions and answers.
I'm sorry Flirty, but if you gave those answers to a girl she's going to laugh in your face. Which won't be bad if that's the response you were going for.

For Ol' Blue Eyes, here's a my answers:

- If you could spend your life doing one thing, what would it be?
Exactly what I'm doing right now. Life is good.
- What type of person makes the best lover?
A man who likes to snuggle afterwards.
- I like a woman who can cook well. What's your best dish?
I am an excellent cook, you'll have to narrow it down. Italian, American, French, Asian, whatever you like...I got a specialty.
- If we were a couple and I wanted to hang out with my friends till 2AM, how would that make you feel?
Have fun! Call me if you need me to come pick you up.
- How would you seduce a gay man?
I'd dress like you. :eek: (Just kidding!)
- How do you feel when you meet someone who you are instantly attracted to?
Terrified! (I just know I'm going to say something stupid & make them hate me!)
- If your life was a movie, what rating would you give it?
PG-For bad language, and sceens too dramatic for children.
 

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Originally posted by flirty_intentions

- How would you seduce a gay man? (be prepared to tell her how you would seduce a
lesbian)
OMG!!! :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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why would you even want to know how???
 

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Come on then, how exactly WOULD you seduce a lesbian?

I'd just bulk up to 200 pounds, get some breast implants and start wielding power tools around while singing KD Lang songs. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There are actually PUAs "specializing" in picking up lesbians and sexing them... The truth is really that almost ALL women are BI the just either prefer males or females.
 
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