"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Food budget? How much are you guys speding on food a month?

THE_ADDMAN

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wow :|


buy stuff in bulk also;

dont be afraid to buy a more expensive (but larger) amount of food

it tends to be less per unit if you buy more units
(IE pound of sugar might be a dollar, 5 pounds of sugar might be 3.99. obviously cheaper per pound in the second example)

might spend more money for that moment, but the food will last much longer
make sure this is stuff that doesnt go bad though :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Derek Flint

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I spend about $120.00 per week at Trader Joe's.

Salmon, Shrimp, Tuna, Flank Steak, Skirt Steak, Chicken, Fresh Fruits and Veggies, Almonds, Sunflower Seeds, Eggs, Salads, etc...

Non-processed, Clean, Organic foods.

Costs more, but the difference in the way you look and feel is well worth it.

Ramen noodles, pasta, bread, sugary sodas, processed foods, microwavable foods, etc.. will all make you slow and sluggish and will fog your mind.

Typical day is like this:

Breakfast:
4 Hard-Boiled eggs

Mid-Morning snack:
Protien shake

Lunch:
Cobb Salad

Mid-Afternoon snack:
Fresh Fruit

Dinner:
Salmon cooked on a George Foreman Grill.
Cauliflower and Broccoli mix steamed in the Microwave

Late-night snack:
Almonds

Cost:
About $15.00 for the whole day

Try eating like this for a week and you'll feel like a Million Bucks.

Also, consider investing in a Juicer and have some fresh fruit/vegetable juice in your daily diet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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