"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Food budget? How much are you guys speding on food a month?

THE_ADDMAN

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wow :|


buy stuff in bulk also;

dont be afraid to buy a more expensive (but larger) amount of food

it tends to be less per unit if you buy more units
(IE pound of sugar might be a dollar, 5 pounds of sugar might be 3.99. obviously cheaper per pound in the second example)

might spend more money for that moment, but the food will last much longer
make sure this is stuff that doesnt go bad though :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I spend about $120.00 per week at Trader Joe's.

Salmon, Shrimp, Tuna, Flank Steak, Skirt Steak, Chicken, Fresh Fruits and Veggies, Almonds, Sunflower Seeds, Eggs, Salads, etc...

Non-processed, Clean, Organic foods.

Costs more, but the difference in the way you look and feel is well worth it.

Ramen noodles, pasta, bread, sugary sodas, processed foods, microwavable foods, etc.. will all make you slow and sluggish and will fog your mind.

Typical day is like this:

Breakfast:
4 Hard-Boiled eggs

Mid-Morning snack:
Protien shake

Lunch:
Cobb Salad

Mid-Afternoon snack:
Fresh Fruit

Dinner:
Salmon cooked on a George Foreman Grill.
Cauliflower and Broccoli mix steamed in the Microwave

Late-night snack:
Almonds

Cost:
About $15.00 for the whole day

Try eating like this for a week and you'll feel like a Million Bucks.

Also, consider investing in a Juicer and have some fresh fruit/vegetable juice in your daily diet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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