nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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Yo, gentlemen of SS. I hope that you are doing well. Since I got fired from my side hustle, I’ve been using my weekends to drive up to bigger cities away from my small town and run game.
I’ve been thinking: I want to start on my game completely from the ground up. I’m rethinking everything, and retooling absolutely everything about my game. I was able to get in a few Direct Approaches over this last weekend. Many of the women responded very positively to my direct approach. They’d say something along the lines of “Why, thank you.” And smile.
What are you all following up your direct approaches with? I’m interested to see what you all do.
For me, I’d usually make observations about her, or have some basic questions that I can use to get the conversation rolling. I would bounce off that and make sure to ramble a bit so that I’m not entering pure interview mode.
One Point I Want to Make:
One criticism I’ve had of my game, is that I can allow my conversations to get platonic. I’ve heard some people say that you don’t even want to say any “comfort building” stuff or ask basic questions until you’ve said enough attraction stuff. I don’t know about that. Seems extremely rigid, and restrictive to me. It also seems like a massive headache to me.
But that being said, I completely agree with the fact that you can’t let your conversations get platonic. You need to sprinkle in lines with intent/premise, whatever you want to call it. My personal theory was that, instead of thinking in phases, you are building “Attraction” and “Comfort” all at the same time, until you close. I’d like to know what you all think of my personal theory too.
I’ll watch some infield too so I can keep getting these concepts in my head. But I’d be interested to see what you all think, and how you are following up your direct approaches so you don’t “fizzle” or get stuck.
I’ve been thinking: I want to start on my game completely from the ground up. I’m rethinking everything, and retooling absolutely everything about my game. I was able to get in a few Direct Approaches over this last weekend. Many of the women responded very positively to my direct approach. They’d say something along the lines of “Why, thank you.” And smile.
What are you all following up your direct approaches with? I’m interested to see what you all do.
For me, I’d usually make observations about her, or have some basic questions that I can use to get the conversation rolling. I would bounce off that and make sure to ramble a bit so that I’m not entering pure interview mode.
One Point I Want to Make:
One criticism I’ve had of my game, is that I can allow my conversations to get platonic. I’ve heard some people say that you don’t even want to say any “comfort building” stuff or ask basic questions until you’ve said enough attraction stuff. I don’t know about that. Seems extremely rigid, and restrictive to me. It also seems like a massive headache to me.
But that being said, I completely agree with the fact that you can’t let your conversations get platonic. You need to sprinkle in lines with intent/premise, whatever you want to call it. My personal theory was that, instead of thinking in phases, you are building “Attraction” and “Comfort” all at the same time, until you close. I’d like to know what you all think of my personal theory too.
I’ll watch some infield too so I can keep getting these concepts in my head. But I’d be interested to see what you all think, and how you are following up your direct approaches so you don’t “fizzle” or get stuck.
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