"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here is the original thread

Just to clarify my house is not dirty...so to speak. Ironically it is more like Tyler Durden's house in the movie "Fight Club".

I planned to go thru with iqqi's suggestion. She called and said she can't meet me. She wanted me to bring it over to her place. I was gonna go but then she added that she would run downstairs and get it when I got there. Ok that was not good. I called her back in an hour. I told her I couldn't make it.

We ended up having lunch today. She got the item then. Whenever I try to talk about sleeping with her she changes the subject or does not respond.
 
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From reading your past post and this one, it seems like she's not interested in you. She just wanted to pick up the electronic item. Plus, why on earth would you talk about sleeping with her over a lunch?
 
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Yes I agree. I have been trying to change her low IL to high IL. Any little movement from her in the positive direction and I get too excited.

She is a HB9 and her cell is always ringing. I have not put all of my eggs in this basket. I still live my life and seek other women. I am very interested in getting her though. I'm not ready to give up but I continue on with my life.
 
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Originally posted by TylerDurden
Whenever I try to talk about sleeping with her she changes the subject or does not respond.
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um....no offense, but...loser?

we need more details on how you are bringing this up....
 
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The mean, nasty girl said nothing when you talked about sleeping with her over lunch?

Hmmm. I'm just stunned.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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