"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Here is the original thread

Just to clarify my house is not dirty...so to speak. Ironically it is more like Tyler Durden's house in the movie "Fight Club".

I planned to go thru with iqqi's suggestion. She called and said she can't meet me. She wanted me to bring it over to her place. I was gonna go but then she added that she would run downstairs and get it when I got there. Ok that was not good. I called her back in an hour. I told her I couldn't make it.

We ended up having lunch today. She got the item then. Whenever I try to talk about sleeping with her she changes the subject or does not respond.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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From reading your past post and this one, it seems like she's not interested in you. She just wanted to pick up the electronic item. Plus, why on earth would you talk about sleeping with her over a lunch?
 

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Yes I agree. I have been trying to change her low IL to high IL. Any little movement from her in the positive direction and I get too excited.

She is a HB9 and her cell is always ringing. I have not put all of my eggs in this basket. I still live my life and seek other women. I am very interested in getting her though. I'm not ready to give up but I continue on with my life.
 

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Originally posted by TylerDurden
Whenever I try to talk about sleeping with her she changes the subject or does not respond.
um....no offense, but...loser?

we need more details on how you are bringing this up....
 

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The mean, nasty girl said nothing when you talked about sleeping with her over lunch?

Hmmm. I'm just stunned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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