"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking."
-Marcus Aurelius

Everytime I log in to sosuave, I observe that most of the posts made by users revolve around some particular girl and their attempts at 'winning' her/'analysing' her.

This is accompanied with various attempts by other users who turn to 'guiding' them.

A user who has thoughts of a particular woman, posts about her here, when she's not even there with him has already lost frame and is in HER frame.

This will unconsciously show in his behaviour whatever "GAME" he pulls off.

In my opinion, I would be rather overjoyed if I see posts about people putting forth efforts in improving themselves and their lives, declaring their purpose, passion and their growth.


This is the ONLY way to be successful with women.

I would be glad if someone links guides and articles which revolve around actions in our own control apart from the generalised Red Pill philosophy.

Off to reread the DJ Bible.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your right. Worrying about and overanalyzing someone whose not making it easy for us is submitting to her. It's weak and not attractive.
 
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For quite a while, I had complete oneitis over this Instagram chick in vegas. I was really to do anything (including drop a ton of cash) to be with her. She turned out to be a flakey dumb ho.

Now I’m much more interested in my career than women. Yes, I post about women but honestly it’s like 1% I’d my energy. I have had such an amazing year for my career, winning awards left and right and getting new opportunities, and I just want to build on it. I’m becoming unstoppable. Everyone around me respects me.

Guys in their 20’s will look back and realize how stupid they acted but that’s a part of life. Looking back, I’m glad did dumb stuff. Now I realize all the mistakes I made and I’m a much better person.
 
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skinnyguy said:
For quite a while, I had complete oneitis over this Instagram chick in vegas. I was really to do anything (including drop a ton of cash) to be with her. She turned out to be a flakey dumb ho.

Now I’m much more interested in my career than women. Yes, I post about women but honestly it’s like 1% I’d my energy. I have had such an amazing year for my career, winning awards left and right and getting new opportunities, and I just want to build on it. I’m becoming unstoppable. Everyone around me respects me.

Guys in their 20’s will look back and realize how stupid they acted but that’s a part of life. Looking back, I’m glad did dumb stuff. Now I realize all the mistakes I made and I’m a much better person.
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Wow. It's amazing what a black hole they are for motivation and energy .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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