"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Focus on money and status not on game

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4. Sometimes red pill concepts hurt more than they help. It's okay to initially chase girls. I had missed so many opportunities just because I was given advice like "next her" or "dump her". General rule of thumb is don't get offended at slightest s*hit like if she says she is busy. Wait a week and try again. I go with 2 strike rule. Only next her if she rejects twice.

5. Despite what many sosuavers will tell you, you need to show and reciprocate some affection. I have lost several great girls because I wasn't reciprocating and was only using them for sex. If she says "I love you", it's okay to say it back. If she says she says "i missed you" it's okay to say "i miss you too". Yes being hard to get works for short term but you will loose your girl if you don't show enough affection. And yes they are human beings too and they need attention. If you don't give it them, then someone else will. In fact I had one girl who cheated on me just because of that.
These two are really good, i like these. You're already better than urbanyst, i disagree to some extent with the first 3 but i think it's right on the money to observe that being too alpha can be as bad as being too beta

Once you've corrected for beta traits you must correct for being too alpha, girls aren't perfect, sometimes they'll do dumb **** and if you next without remorse every time a girl messes up, you'll next even the most perfect girl eventually. Gotta be forgiving of minor transgressions, show affection when she's being good, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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