"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flying to meet hot chick this weekend .

mikey2012

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I live in NY and she in LA. Do I ask her if she is on the rag beforehand because if she is this will be just a waste of time and money.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Uh, no. You go and have a good time in La La land and you see what happens. Otherwise, you are showing your hand to this chick, which is always a bad move.
 

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Are you flying to LA to purposely meet this chick? Or is it an aside to something else you are travelling for?

Edit: also, what earlkeese says
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Insisting that a woman is not having her period for a trip with you will nuke the relationship. Encouraging her to be ovulating is ok though.
 

seethehoop

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gspshields2 said:
why is everyone who asks a question a troll?
BC its clearly a troll post. I have no problem with helping someone with a genuine issue but given that NY is on the east coast and LA on the west there's no way anyone is going to suggest flying that kind of distance for a girl. The OP is clearly a child as no adult would talk like this or ask such an idiotic question. I also think you are here to troll BC I've seen some of your posts and they reek of the same immaturity.
 

Masculinity

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Troll to the 12th power
 
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I'll assume the OP is a troll but it definitely brings up the rule, never drive more than an hour or so to meet a chick, and that's only for a SURE LAY. And never ever fly unless she's a billionaire and is waiting in Vegas to marry you without a prenup right now.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zarky said:
I'll assume the OP is a troll but it definitely brings up the rule, never drive more than an hour or so to meet a chick, and that's only for a SURE LAY. And never ever fly unless she's a billionaire and is waiting in Vegas to marry you without a prenup right now.
Most of the time, even a sure lay isn't in stone. And that thing about flying? That's a fairy tale.:crackup:

But OP, only go to LA if you've got other reasons to be out there besides the chance at sex.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 
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