"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I feel that my lack of ability to communicate is what has been the #1 cause of all my problems in life. I've been told that I don't know how to talk to people & I must agree it is true. Can any1 give me any guidlines or tips on how I can learn this language game. I've been told I have no game. I'm just a good looking guy with many great aspects about me, but I just don't know how to present myself & speak good game.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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& 1 more thing, I notice I quit on myself early in the game too.. Thanks guys I really need some solid input, feel like im going no where fastt
 
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Whats your problem?

What happens when your talking?
 
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Go out more. Sitting alone at your computer telling us that you can't communicate isn't helping you jack ****. You need to go out and socialize, it will build your confidence and make you a lot smoother and relaxed in talking with anyone.
 
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