"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fluidity of self

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I feel that my lack of ability to communicate is what has been the #1 cause of all my problems in life. I've been told that I don't know how to talk to people & I must agree it is true. Can any1 give me any guidlines or tips on how I can learn this language game. I've been told I have no game. I'm just a good looking guy with many great aspects about me, but I just don't know how to present myself & speak good game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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& 1 more thing, I notice I quit on myself early in the game too.. Thanks guys I really need some solid input, feel like im going no where fastt
 

Ease

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Whats your problem?

What happens when your talking?
 

Reckoning

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Go out more. Sitting alone at your computer telling us that you can't communicate isn't helping you jack ****. You need to go out and socialize, it will build your confidence and make you a lot smoother and relaxed in talking with anyone.
 
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