"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zekko

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This is just sort of a mini rant, I was wondering if any other people felt the same.

Regarding flirty girls: They will compliment you, kino you, make some sort of suggestive remark about you. And then they will go do the exact same thing to every other guy in the area.

This is okay, I guess. But I'd prefer a girl flirts with me because she likes me, not because I happen to be the male who's standing next to her at that point in time. I'd rather a girl single out a guy who she really likes for that treatment, or at least narrow it down.

A flirty girl on steroids is an attention wh0re.

Of course, a lot of guys do the exact same thing. You might tell me "You're not a special snowflake" lol. But really, if you want to get into that top 10 percent, you have to stand out, right? An elite guy really is a special snowflake, yes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko said:
This is just sort of a mini rant, I was wondering if any other people felt the same.

Regarding flirty girls: They will compliment you, kino you, make some sort of suggestive remark about you. And then they will go do the exact same thing to every other guy in the area.

This is okay, I guess. But I'd prefer a girl flirts with me because she likes me, not because I happen to be the male who's standing next to her at that point in time. I'd rather a girl single out a guy who she really likes for that treatment, or at least narrow it down.

A flirty girl on steroids is an attention wh0re.

Of course, a lot of guys do the exact same thing. You might tell me "You're not a special snowflake" lol. But really, if you want to get into that top 10 percent, you have to stand out, right? An elite guy really is a special snowflake, yes?

Flirty girl IS an attention wh0re. When she comes in to give you attention, pivot her for the preselection and/or ignore her and hit on her quieter friends instead. THEN when she's annoyed nobody is giving her attention you toss her a bone.
 

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samspade said:
Rare is the American female who can be charming AND flirty and know when to turn it on and off. There are exceptional females who flirt when they feel attraction and charm the rest of the time.
I think the girls who are the best at this are better at hiding it.

I knew this one AW girl, she was very careful to make sure she would get each guy off by himself before she'd turn on the real flirty stuff. That way, none of the other guys knew she was giving every other guy the same treatment. The more clumsy flirty girls just blurt out their stuff no matter who is around to hear it.

Again, a lot of guys and DJs do the exact same thing, so I don't know how much you can criticize it. It's just that the girl's flirtations lose pretty much all their value when you know she's doing the same thing with every other dude.
 

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All you have to do is grab her by there hand and tell them, "lets get out of here"
 
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